you can't convince me that it is not possible to objectify your spouse
That's just spiffing, because I don't think anyone here is trying to.
- and I'm not even in a relationship.
I have a lovely cousin in Greece. She's an accomplished pianist, runs a bookshop and comes from a pious family, 30 years old.....
Hang on! If you two get together and marry that would mean you and I would be related