was hijacked by a wiccan recently. No one can say anything or she gets this angry "poor me" attitude.
She must have issues, most wiccans I know are very open minded..."you don't try to convert me, I won't try to convert you" type attitude. But if she is getting a lot of crud from people in the group, she is bound to get defensive. It isn't easy talking to people who think you drink blood and eat babies, ya know, when all you really do is hug trees.
Unless she's a zealot type, they are just as bad as the hellfire and brimstone crowd.
I think the RC idea is good. At least you have the roots in common! Have you also thought about putting up a flyer for "homeschooling mom wants to network with other homeschoolers or stay at home moms etc etc." next time you go to the grocey store? Or maybe making a small web page, and advertising the url in ads at the store, or even a freebie ad in the paper? Or is it possible for you to travel every now and then to a group not in your town?
Don't let them get you down. It is hard to be isolated, believe me I know. I can't even go online anymore, or talk on the phone, because we don't have one. I can't drive anywhere...so I know how you feel somewhat.
And I don't see why your dh couldn't consent to move for the betterment of the family, considering your daughter's needs and your
needs, and if he is in the top bracket, he could afford a small daily commute, you'd think. Just start looking online at realtor.com, that's what I did when it was time to get out of the hood, I basically forced the issue.