Could you care to explain why God has hard wired us to preocreate with as many women as possible? Perhaps you could find a Scriptural or patristic basis for such an assertion.
I am sorry if I am being too hard on you but you need to be able to provide a Scriptural or patristic basis for your reasoning. All you've provided so far are secularist assertions that contradict all Orthodoxy.
Even a Christian who believes in evolution should recognize that God created human sexuality exclusively for husband and wife.
I gave you a suggestion for a possible reason way from a theological perspective. I could go to the trouble of making the case for my point by arguing from anthropology, including records of primitive societies in the Jewish Scriptures; but I really don't think it would be worth anyone's time, because you're refuse to see the plain and simple truth even if it was laid right before your eyes...which it is...how many young men, if unfettered by morals, society, or responsibility, would choose to procreate with one and only one woman? There's a reason that such religions as mormonism and islam promise men large numbers of women, because that is what their most primitive urges desire. This is simply a reality of how humans evolved, we can also see it in other primates who evolved from similar ancestors. It also explains the physical differences between male and female, this difference does not generally exist in monogamous species.
Furthermore, I refuse to go there because it is pointless for me to argue sound scientific research (as well as a fact that is self-evident to any, even casual, objective observer of the Homo Sapien
species). If you wish to live by the maxim that 'Ignorance is Strength,' then so be it.
Now, this is not to suggest that I oppose monogamy, independent of the theological reasons I actually believe it to be most benificial. It is the permanent solution to the problem of inequality between male and female and will ultimately help breed out most intra-societal violent crime.
My AP biology teacher from high school, who happens to be both a devout Catholic and professional biologist, would insist that human sexuality is intended exclusively for husband and wife.
REALLY, your AP Biology teacher told you that?
My AP Biology teacher had a tendency to brag about her sexual exploits in class (which was somewhat disturbing since her son, who was a friend of mine, was in my class, but he didn't seem to mind so, oh well)...point being, if you're going to make an appeal to authority at least appeal to a real authority; high school teachers generally don't make the cut, especially since the academic requirements for an education-science degree tend to be about half the requirements for a real science degree.