Here is a thought. I met my husband when I was just 14 and I knew little to nothing of the fire that could be ignited-cept from health class and protestant folks that measured how far apart boys and girls sat in chapel.
As if that helped lessen the teen pregnancy rate.
IN a society so inundated with free sex, any little bit of excitement is going to set some guy in the direction intended in releasing all that fire being built up. This isn't a century ago. Guys aren't nearly as are purely idealed as they used to be, and to be fair neither are the gals.
The more a man is ignited, tv, movies, porn, internet, whatever-even a kiss is a big deal. It doesn't take much to get most younger men going. Heck, still doesn't take much for my man to get going and he is middle age.
You gotta ask, is kissing something that you would do if Christ accompanied you on your date? Maybe, if it was a gentlemanly kiss goodnight. But I doubt that is the kinda kissin ya'll are referencing, eh?
Ya'll are basically asking whether or not it's right to just sample a little bit. But if you aren't intent on marrying the lady you are with, then you are sampling some other man's wife. Just a thought from someone that wishes she only had memories of the man she met at 14... hindsight is 20/20 you know