OzGeorge, I know your pain, but from a different angle. I'm a police officer, and it is very hard to deal with these things, even from our side. I know what pain you feel, trust me , we feel it too, your pain, your anger and hate, and praying God's judgement down on these 'animals'. I sincerely pray with all my heart and soul for Tatiana, and for you. I pray for her recovery, that she may forgive this 'animal', that we all may forgive him, and pray for him (though this goes against everything in our hearts at the moment). Please let Tatiana know that there is a 'copper' praying for her, and that no matter what, God still loves her and accepts her. What happened is not her fault, she is not to blame. Yes, Oz George, be angry, be disgusted, be viled. What happened is disgusting and vile. But pray. Pray for Tatiana, her family, the healing of her soul, mind, and body, and the hardest thing to do, pray for those who sin against you (and Tatiana). I'm angry and disgusted, I want to kill this man, but, pray for him, forgive him as Christ forgave you, and me, the most unworthy recipiant of his grace. I pray for you Tatiana and OzGeorge.