Well I was watching Dr. Drew on CNN and this guy was talking via Skype about how men will commit an extramarital affair and the excuse isn't a psychological problem, but rather natural because its biological.
I want to know why men think its a biological impulse to commit adultery.
We've been all "encouraged" to do this via medias, no ?
Almost made me want to throw up. Of course it came from a man, no less.
It is natural and it is biological. But neither of those things make it morally right. Women try to find the best genes and get the man to stick around afterwards so that her progeny have a great chance at survival. Even today with the single mother epidemic, they just find a different man - Uncle Sam - to raise their womb turds. Men are biologically hardwired to use the shotgun approach - put as many little ones out as possible and some will surely have to survive! Women do not have this option because they have to carry the kid for 9 months then due to cranium/exit size ratio the child cannot be abandoned for many years afterwards, probably puberty at least.
The thing with society is, we have made female breeding imperatives work because in the end, if her's doesn't work you won't have much of a population. A woman will still try to pick the best man possible, but there always was the cultural goal that she pick quick (whilst still in her prime breeding years) or better yet, have a rational adult pick one for her, and then stick with the man rather than trying to find better and better genes for the next round of spawn - this enforced loyalty is a cultural reward for men to give up their mating prerogative, that they would enjoy the benefits of their sacrifice.
Modern hookup culture has perverted this. Women put off child birth longer and longer. All the while, many of them are still hooking up with men who display all the sexy traits (who all the while are exercising their natural prerogative) and then when it's time to breed (typically after or really close to the expiration date) find some beta provider to take care of them for a while before dumping them for the cash prizes that no-fault divorce allows for, and then letting Uncle Sam become the provider while they try to find a man more to the tastes they had in their twenties.
Luckily for humanity, enough men and women have bought into religion, or at least in to the former cultural norm, and are willing to use the tried and true methods of our civilized ancestors. Without these methods (i.e. marriage) you would have a general degradation and eventual collapse of civilization. As it is, you can see signs of this degradation all around you.
Lord have mercy. Censeo, liberalism delenda est.