Gebre, indeed Love is never an easy thing to do. by its very nature it asks the self to be the other so in the end there is no other. that is :what one wants for oneself one will do for the other. as the apostle of Love St. John the Divine, knowing that people would abuse the term as we tend to abuse all good things at our disposal, have started to speak in negative to indicate what is not love, and said 1John 3:18 "My little children, let us not love in word, nor in tongue, but in deed, and in truth." yes Love can only be itself in Truth and is manifested in deeds that are, and move in sync with the truth. Love for ALL humans who are created in the image and likeness of the Creator, can only be acquired in first loving the Creator above all things.as the apostle have said love does not mean to exist in a lie( a lie we tell ourselves or others which then becomes the pillar before our very eyes that prevents us from seeing clearly), to ignore human evil, to agree with falsehood etc... humility also does not mean to embrace falsehood, ignore human evil, never attempt to prevent a brother from walking into a death trap etc... love is difficult for fallen humanity precisely because it only dwells in Truth. and truth is not just an idea , to us Truth is a Person. and that Person Commands us to Love one another in Truth, He did not command to be fake to one another. in this way, one can love even ones enemies and do good to those who persecute him/her. because as Abba Giyorgis zegatsicha asks rhetorically 'can a christian ever hope to enter the Kingdom even while hating his enemy let alone his brother?!'
May the Lord have mercy on us!