Have you considered that only people who are not humble and loving tell other people tell other people that there is something wrong with??? ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š
K, I'm gonna jump in on this one...
I'm sorry that things went so sour for you, both in the relationship in real life and here on the board.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š I do know, however, that not only folks who are proud and unloving tell folks they have something wrong with them.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š I'm sorry you took their tone to be offensive--not apologizing FOR them, but I do feel bad FOR YOU that you feel this way about it.
You did not ask for my advice, I know, but here it is: make the first move, and let it go.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š Pages and pages of debate on the subject (which this will inevitably degenerate into, since we all talk too much on here) will not ease the feelings nor solve any problems.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š Just turn the other cheek and you'll be fine.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š So will they.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š Pray for 'em.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š Pray for yourself.
And, if you've got time, pray for me.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€š
But...again...if you don't take me up on this stuff I've just said...at least take the topic elsewhere (like, devote a FFA thread to it and see who bites).