”Don't you ever think. That after your death. You will inherit. The kingdom that you . Have not lived yet here on earth.” Elder Arsenie Boca
What does that mean? Does it mean that if you don't have faith that you can do everything and are still fearing things, feeling insecure, doubting, being scared, afraid, without the transfigurating force within you and without security that you will not pass and overcome the barrier of Hades/Death/Hell into Heaven after death?
I think it means that you need to come to the realization of who God is, to accept Him and His teachings, to live by His laws (at least make a descent attempt to do so), to search for Him...while alive.
If you die, without any of these....you have lived an empty and shallow life. You have made no progress in your life....therefore, why would you consider yourself worthy to inherit anything?
Children who misbehave, who leave the family, who go off in a different direction, are often disinherited.
However, remember the parable of the Prodigal Son....the Father RUNS to meet his wayward son. He doesn't just wait...he runs to meet him...and he doesn't just take him back in to the household....he takes him back as his son.
There is always hope....but, that son needed to turn back and go home, before he died in the pigpen.