If the glimpse of "back skin under the buttons of a dress" sets you off, then God help you. Truly, God help you, because no-one else will.
What is your answer to this, yesh? You keep ignoring it.
"Sets me off" was their words.
Which saint was it that said that our sins are greater than all the sands of the ocean and stars of the sky? Of course this is impossible, but we do have a lot of sins.
See this thread has turned into:
I say = Small glances, small sins, falls into lust & corrects quickly
Most see = Sets you off, heart beating out of chest, sweat pouring out, staring, etc.
"He that looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart".
There is a man who said that line above. One that SHOULD be worshiped in Eastern Orthodoxy, or at least the Eastern Orthodox church I was a part of at one time.
If we consider a sneak peak at cleavage to be nothing, then we need to consider why we looked. It was because we lusted for that sneak peak.