*** WARNING AVERT YOUR EYES IF YOU HAVE DELICATE SENSIBILITIES
Sex and passion have an entirely new meaning when you have been married, with children for some time. Once you have a certain number of kids, the phrase "The kids are asleep" can be an invitation if you catch my drift
I knew a young man that wanted to have hours long sexual escapades three times a day. And many a newly married couple can do precisely that. But there is a difference between those early escapades, and the sex later in marriage. After having the same partner for quite some time, things just get better.
I have met a lot of women though that have absolutely no skills in making a home. I blame in part the push for women to cast aside the skills of their grandmothers and "accomplish" something. The husbands will do much of the care of the home, the cooking, and work a full time job as well. I don't think that is right/fair to the husband.
My husband doesn't have a ton of time. He works full time, and he helps when he can. I stayed up until 7 AM with our 7 month old last night. When I woke to the dishes being clean, I was happy beyond belief. He knew that it would be hard to manage the 7 month old, make dinner from scratch, and everything else given how tired I was. Doing the dishes was the most loving thing he could have done. It meant far more to me than a bouquet of flowers on the counter. If I was incapable of keeping our home, we wouldn't have 6 children. But there are certainly times when I need help.