Who cares about their projections if they're happy? No relationship really works if you aren't willing to ignore the sins of the other to some degree.
But see that's what I want to get at. The blood, sweat and tears of a marriage.
I mean lets have both the worst and best brought forth.
If your marriage sucks or have regrets then speak up, and say explicitly why. Get rid of the forum vanity and be more honest.
How is Isa's experience any different than being anecdotal?
Well the interesting part is he is divorced.
My problem with trusting the experiences of those still married once is that they could very well be dragging out a terrible marriage for whatever reason that may be.
Love in virtue of doing chores raises an immediate red flag.
Quite, which is why I would only speak in the broadest of terms. What works for me wouldn't work for you, because we ain't very much alike and from what I gather from your past posting you wouldn't settle with a woman like my beloved.
Well dude I am the best and I want a woman of my equal. If I am getting married only once, I will have it no other way.
Not really sure what you're getting at here.
This whole reply about "well you arent married to know!" in regards to what actually goes on within it.