Well he emails me whenever I miss Church
OK. So when you miss church, he writes about how you were wrong not to show up, how you committed a sin, that God's going to punish you because his patience for converts is limited (unlike his patience with converts), that when he sees you next he's going to slap you and prohibit you from communing for a few weeks, etc., etc., right?
Or could he just be concerned about you? Perhaps he emails others too, or calls them, or otherwise reaches out to them, whether or not you know about it?