I would like to thank all of you who have.commented so far
@Gebre, the compactability is the major issue because they both seem to click with me....For God's sake, we are discussing all the major questions: marriage, kids, Orthodoxy, want me to meet their family, etc...
@Ioan. - It's a thankless position. I am stuck.
I am not sure if I would make a mistake whichever I choose...but pray that things will be more clear as time goes by.
@Adela - You are my big sister!
Thanks for pointing things from the female perspective.
@Vamrat - patience is not always on my side. Sometimes I feel like I cheeting, even though I am not