If I find a woman other than my wife sexually appealing, does this automatically make me an adulterer? What if I find several women this way, am I an adulterer? No, not until I entertain these thoughts resulting in an overt action on my part.
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If Christians would stop pressuring Congress into making abortions and gay marriage illegal, then they wouldn't be considered hate organizations. This nation was founded upon secular principles, heavily influenced by both the Church of England and the writings of men such as Thomas Paine who was a Deist. I'm not calling anyone a "hate group", but I'm just saying -- there's a way to avoid that label.
Two things I wish to correct you on from your post.
1) Rallying to make something legal or illegal is not hate work. You didn’t just fall for the propaganda, you drowned in it. Look at it this way, and I will use your example of abortion, someone rallied to make it legal. Would you consider that a hate group? If not, you shouldn’t consider people attempting to make it illegal a hate group. The sword cuts both ways. Not only that, but homosexual marriage has never been legal, so no one is trying to make it illegal because it already was. People are trying to make it legal and people are trying to prevent it, very simple. Additionally, Congress has nothing to do with marriage. It’s always been state level and I suspect, even with the two cases SCOTUS is looking over, it will remain a state level issue, unless SCOTUS chooses to be unconstitutional. Disagreement, even great, is not hate. Propoganda!
2) This nation was founded on religious freedom and freedom from tyranny, period, not secular principles. More propaganda you have fallen victim of. Do some serious US history study. I say serious because they don’t teach it in schools anymore. They did, but no longer, so you will have to most likely look outside your classroom for the truth.
Additionally, what do you expect Christians to do? Nothing? If that is what people expect Christians to do, I suggest they show us how by doing nothing first.
Finally, there is a way to stop, avoid and end the “hate group” label. People could always stop lying about it and using it. I think that would work splendidly.