I overheard this today at work about how a few people love their therapists because they are not judgemental.
But couldn't that be beneficial? I mean if I wasn't expecting any feedback I might as well just talk to the wall about my problems.
And no I don't have a therapist, but if I was to select one, I'd like someone to tell me how awful/great of a person I am and here's why.
No PC. No compromises. No BS, more importantly.
Trust me you don't want judgement. What you want is constructive criticism. There is a big difference. In the first case you get to know your problem, from a moral perspective only. In the second case. You get a person that is able to look beyond right and wrong, and actually give you advice on how to deal with your problem, without making yourself suffer because of your problem.