While your concern for the salvation of others is commendable, you really should not be so overly concerned on whether they judged you wrongly, etc.
YOUR duty is to forgive everyone, pray for everyone (especially those you feel might be your enemies)...and leave it at that.
God knows the hearts of each individual....He is aware of what they have said, written and done.
Let us hope that all these people who have "wronged" you, in fact do so much good in the world, that this small infraction won't be noticed, at all.
Lord, have mercy upon us all.