all of the above!
1. be sure to share what you are going through with your wife. be open and kind.
2. orthodox churches are often the best if you work weekends, as there is often a midweek liturgy
(sometimes at 6am, but it's worth it!) so u can 'catch up' if you missed out on sunday.
3. ask lots of questions.
visit the convert issues board here and read a lot of posts.
the convert issues board is the most closely moderated, so u won't find so much rubbish stuff
or stuff posted by people trying to sabotage the subject as occasionally occurs on other boards here
(if anyone tells u that u r going to hell, for example, skip reading their posts!)
once u have met 'real life' orthodox people, value their opinions more than ours! (with the exception of
the priests who post here).
4. as someone who had been orthodox for 4 years, with a protestant family, i encourage you to take it slow
and remember u r on a spiritual journey to become closer to God, not to find the perfect church.
(although if u find it, please inform me by personal message!)
5. ahh, fasting!
don't try it all at once, a little bit at a time is the usual recommended for newcomers who want to fast.