For those of you who are just foaming at the mouth to answer "ask your priest" I know. I just wanted to see what the general consensus is before I ask.
Welcome to the forum! If you read through this forum and, this section in particular, you will find the answer "ask your priest" to be a very common answer because there is a wide tradition when it come to the minutia of Orthodoxy.
Something that I think I should mention, since it should be a universal practice, that only Orthodox Christians are remembered with a particle. Some priest will pray for the individuals who are not Orthodox and just not place a particle. So, depending on who you were going to ask the priest to pray for, offering the bread may be a mute point.