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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #405 on: April 07, 2012, 10:06:30 AM »
I do not think women care about cars. Judging from every woman I have ever talked to, they seem to show little to no interest in a man's car. It might just be an unnecessary burden we are putting on ourselves. Besides, if a person has funk and style, then it does not matter what you are wearing or riding because you can sell it and make it look good.
But women care about that funk and style, surely. Dude how did you manage to get all life experiences at the age of 16 again?

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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #406 on: April 07, 2012, 03:21:26 PM »
I do not think women care about cars. Judging from every woman I have ever talked to, they seem to show little to no interest in a man's car. It might just be an unnecessary burden we are putting on ourselves. Besides, if a person has funk and style, then it does not matter what you are wearing or riding because you can sell it and make it look good.
But women care about that funk and style, surely. Dude how did you manage to get all life experiences at the age of 16 again?



My parents used to ask me this when I was 16. Sometimes they still ask me it, heh. :P
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« Reply #407 on: April 07, 2012, 06:40:21 PM »
If I ever get my life back, this thread needs some serious maintenance.

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« Reply #408 on: April 07, 2012, 07:10:40 PM »
Why else would these two be criteria?

- Low maintenance.
- Must be "open minded" in the bedroom.

Well, actually, the thin----   wait, I can't talk about thaton this forum!!|!. NVM!  ;D

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« Reply #409 on: April 07, 2012, 07:12:02 PM »
If I ever get my life back, this thread needs some serious maintenance.

The blind are leading the blind. And yes I know the cause of your blindness. It certainly ain't congenital.

Don't worry, I'll hold down the fort until you return, offering sage advice from my dragon's-treasure-pile of knowledge  :police:

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« Reply #410 on: April 07, 2012, 08:02:00 PM »
If I ever get my life back, this thread needs some serious maintenance.

I look forward to it.
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« Reply #411 on: April 07, 2012, 08:03:56 PM »
If I ever get my life back, this thread needs some serious maintenance.

I look forward to it.

He's been saying that for months...  He's like an athlete who shows up every few months to assure everyone he's not going to retire, hoping his sponsors don't drop him like a rock.  :P

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« Reply #412 on: April 07, 2012, 11:04:40 PM »
If I ever get my life back, this thread needs some serious maintenance.

The blind are leading the blind. And yes I know the cause of your blindness. It certainly ain't congenital.


Stop fronting that you have a life. You're just like the rest of us, trying to make sense out of Asteriktos life and spending hours on it.
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #413 on: April 07, 2012, 11:05:47 PM »
If I ever get my life back, this thread needs some serious maintenance.

The blind are leading the blind. And yes I know the cause of your blindness. It certainly ain't congenital.


Stop fronting that you have a life. You're just like the rest of us, trying to make sense out of Asteriktos life and spending hours on it.

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« Reply #414 on: April 08, 2012, 04:37:39 PM »
Stop fronting that you have a life. You're just like the rest of us, trying to make sense out of Asteriktos life and spending hours on it.

Lost cause.  I got a sex change to please him and it still wasn't enough.

Someone once tried to insult me by saying I had "an oblique personality". I thanked him for the compliment.

But vamrat, I hadn't decided yet, don't be so glum. Tell you what, make a profile on fetlife and post a dozen or so pics, and I'll take a gander. Deal?  ;D

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« Reply #415 on: April 08, 2012, 07:33:04 PM »
Stop fronting that you have a life. You're just like the rest of us, trying to make sense out of Asteriktos life and spending hours on it.

Lost cause.  I got a sex change to please him and it still wasn't enough.

Someone once tried to insult me by saying I had "an oblique personality". I thanked him for the compliment.

But vamrat, I hadn't decided yet, don't be so glum. Tell you what, make a profile on fetlife and post a dozen or so pics, and I'll take a gander. Deal?  ;D

[sniffle]  Ok  [sniffle]
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #416 on: April 08, 2012, 10:58:19 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?
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« Reply #417 on: April 08, 2012, 11:19:37 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Ask Cavaradossi around here about a killer inside joke about Tosca. If she makes the connection to the alluded word play, it will truly be an Easter marigold.

Or just chill. Don't discuss Russian mail order brides, the decay of Western Civilization, and just ask her a few questions about herself and pay attention and don't talk too much.



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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #418 on: April 08, 2012, 11:51:27 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #419 on: April 09, 2012, 03:43:39 AM »
I just met a guy I like, but he works for the rep I am volunteering for. I know you shouldn't date co-workers, and it would be cool if I ever got a job offer from the rep if/when he wins.  Should I just forget about it until after the election?
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« Reply #420 on: April 09, 2012, 10:15:34 AM »
I just met a guy I like, but he works for the rep I am volunteering for. I know you shouldn't date co-workers, and it would be cool if I ever got a job offer from the rep if/when he wins.  Should I just forget about it until after the election?

The only advice I have is the warning that if stuff goes south it will be hard to work around him.  Also, since he is in at the firm and you are not yet this could potentially become a lop-sided relationship.  I'm not going to persuade or dissuade you, just pointing out two obvious drawbacks.
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« Reply #421 on: April 09, 2012, 10:32:20 AM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Be a gentleman. But don't act like she's the only person in the room. You should wait until after the Fast to start dating someone.  ;)
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« Reply #422 on: April 09, 2012, 10:54:51 AM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Be a gentleman. But don't act like she's the only person in the room. You should wait until after the Fast to start dating someone.  ;)

Yeah.  Would have been good to know about forty days ago...  :'(
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« Reply #423 on: April 09, 2012, 02:26:17 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.  Don't do it!  You are too young to end your life.
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« Reply #424 on: April 09, 2012, 02:28:49 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Be a gentleman. But don't act like she's the only person in the room. You should wait until after the Fast to start dating someone.  ;)

Why wait?  Is this another made up "tradition" that can be found nowhere in Scripture and practiced by nearly no one?
I would be happy to agree with you, but then both of us would be wrong.

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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #425 on: April 09, 2012, 02:32:51 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?
Ask your priest  :P
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« Reply #426 on: April 09, 2012, 02:48:04 PM »
I just met a guy I like, but he works for the rep I am volunteering for. I know you shouldn't date co-workers, and it would be cool if I ever got a job offer from the rep if/when he wins.  Should I just forget about it until after the election?

On possible route is to ask him out to lunch to discuss political strategery or something, and see what happens from there...

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« Reply #427 on: April 09, 2012, 02:52:05 PM »
I just met a guy I like, but he works for the rep I am volunteering for. I know you shouldn't date co-workers, and it would be cool if I ever got a job offer from the rep if/when he wins.  Should I just forget about it until after the election?

On possible route is to ask him out to lunch to discuss political strategery or something, and see what happens from there...
"I think the best way our guy can win is for you to follow me to the Motel 6....."

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« Reply #428 on: April 09, 2012, 03:56:11 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Be a gentleman. But don't act like she's the only person in the room. You should wait until after the Fast to start dating someone.  ;)

Why wait?  Is this another made up "tradition" that can be found nowhere in Scripture and practiced by nearly no one?


Why yes. I just made it up. Since I clearly stated in my post this was a tradition practiced by the church you shouldn't even have to ask. I just figured my statement would be as obvious as your ending the young man's life with dating/marriage comment is also "traditional". It dare wouldn't be my own advice or opinion.
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« Reply #429 on: April 09, 2012, 04:46:57 PM »
I just met a guy I like, but he works for the rep I am volunteering for. I know you shouldn't date co-workers, and it would be cool if I ever got a job offer from the rep if/when he wins.  Should I just forget about it until after the election?

On possible route is to ask him out to lunch to discuss political strategery or something, and see what happens from there...
"I think the best way our guy can win is for you to follow me to the Motel 6....."

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Wow. What kind of dates are you going on, Primuspilus...

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« Reply #430 on: April 09, 2012, 04:48:07 PM »
You stated such, but I do not believe you.

So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Be a gentleman. But don't act like she's the only person in the room. You should wait until after the Fast to start dating someone.  ;)

Why wait?  Is this another made up "tradition" that can be found nowhere in Scripture and practiced by nearly no one?


Why yes. I just made it up. Since I clearly stated in my post this was a tradition practiced by the church you shouldn't even have to ask. I just figured my statement would be as obvious as your ending the young man's life with dating/marriage comment is also "traditional". It dare wouldn't be my own advice or opinion.
I would be happy to agree with you, but then both of us would be wrong.

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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #431 on: April 09, 2012, 05:57:48 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Be a gentleman. But don't act like she's the only person in the room. You should wait until after the Fast to start dating someone.  ;)

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« Reply #432 on: April 09, 2012, 06:20:54 PM »
Science has proven that the best place to go for advice on dating/relationships is a thread about this on a gaming forum. You can't refute science.

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« Reply #433 on: April 09, 2012, 08:00:19 PM »
Science has proven that the best place to go for advice on dating/relationships is a thread about this on a gaming forum. You can't refute science.

Yes, nobody can give better advice than a bunch of 30 year old virgins living in their mom's basement.
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« Reply #434 on: April 09, 2012, 08:02:08 PM »
Science has proven that the best place to go for advice on dating/relationships is a thread about this on a gaming forum. You can't refute science.

Yes, nobody can give better advice than a bunch of 30 year old virgins living in their mom's basement.

You mad because they have an easier life than you? Yeah, you're mad...  ;D

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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #435 on: April 09, 2012, 10:29:27 PM »
I just met a guy I like, but he works for the rep I am volunteering for. I know you shouldn't date co-workers, and it would be cool if I ever got a job offer from the rep if/when he wins.  Should I just forget about it until after the election?

On possible route is to ask him out to lunch to discuss political strategery or something, and see what happens from there...
"I think the best way our guy can win is for you to follow me to the Motel 6....."

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Wow. What kind of dates are you going on, Primuspilus...
I'm not sure we really want to know what kind of dates Primuspilus goes on...
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« Reply #436 on: April 10, 2012, 12:13:44 PM »
Not only am I mad, but I am also angry.

Science has proven that the best place to go for advice on dating/relationships is a thread about this on a gaming forum. You can't refute science.

Yes, nobody can give better advice than a bunch of 30 year old virgins living in their mom's basement.

You mad because they have an easier life than you? Yeah, you're mad...  ;D
I would be happy to agree with you, but then both of us would be wrong.

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« Reply #437 on: April 10, 2012, 12:19:50 PM »
Not only am I mad, but I am also angry.

Science has proven that the best place to go for advice on dating/relationships is a thread about this on a gaming forum. You can't refute science.

Yes, nobody can give better advice than a bunch of 30 year old virgins living in their mom's basement.

You mad because they have an easier life than you? Yeah, you're mad...  ;D

Well, maybe some day when they leave their geeky existence behind they'll do things that normal people do... like post on theology boards.  :-*

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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #438 on: April 10, 2012, 12:25:15 PM »
I just met a guy I like, but he works for the rep I am volunteering for. I know you shouldn't date co-workers, and it would be cool if I ever got a job offer from the rep if/when he wins.  Should I just forget about it until after the election?

On possible route is to ask him out to lunch to discuss political strategery or something, and see what happens from there...
"I think the best way our guy can win is for you to follow me to the Motel 6....."

PP

Wow. What kind of dates are you going on, Primuspilus...
I'm not sure we really want to know what kind of dates Primuspilus goes on...
Well, I did marry my wife 3 weeks after we met.......

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« Reply #439 on: April 10, 2012, 03:11:40 PM »
I'm so excited right now! Look at this email I just got...

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You have a new message from vicky23. It reads:

vicky44u@yahoo.comHello.My Name is vicky i want to your profile today at
(orthodoxchristiandating.com) and i love it i think we can clcik from
thier!please i will like you to email me back through my email
thus;(vicky44u@yahoo.com)  am waiting to recive your lovely reply
soonest! Yours vicky    !please contact me through my email address so
i can give you my picture and tell you my datel have a nice day.

What should I do? *squeeeeee*
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #440 on: April 10, 2012, 03:20:22 PM »
I'm so excited right now! Look at this email I just got...

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You have a new message from vicky23. It reads:

vicky44u@yahoo.comHello.My Name is vicky i want to your profile today at
(orthodoxchristiandating.com) and i love it i think we can clcik from
thier!please i will like you to email me back through my email
thus;(vicky44u@yahoo.com)  am waiting to recive your lovely reply
soonest! Yours vicky    !please contact me through my email address so
i can give you my picture and tell you my datel have a nice day.

What should I do? *squeeeeee*

Wow, I just got the same email yesterday.

Would you rather duel or share?
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #441 on: April 12, 2012, 03:18:45 AM »
I just met a guy I like, but he works for the rep I am volunteering for. I know you shouldn't date co-workers, and it would be cool if I ever got a job offer from the rep if/when he wins.  Should I just forget about it until after the election?

On possible route is to ask him out to lunch to discuss political strategery or something, and see what happens from there...
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #442 on: April 12, 2012, 06:31:08 AM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.  Don't do it!  You are too young to end your life.

Best advice on this thread.  Don't start dating until you are ready to get married - realistically not until 22ish.   Figure out who you are first and live life a little.  The stress, pain, temptations and drama of dating just aren't worth it.  Marriage on the other hand certainly is. 

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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #444 on: April 12, 2012, 05:41:34 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.  Don't do it!  You are too young to end your life.

Best advice on this thread.  Don't start dating until you are ready to get married - realistically not until 22ish.   Figure out who you are first and live life a little.  The stress, pain, temptations and drama of dating just aren't worth it.  Marriage on the other hand certainly is. 

Okay, I'll try to follow this advice. However, there probably will be moments when I forget about, let my feelings get to me or make mistakes. Is it strange to want to date because it makes me feel older? In a strange way, dating makes me feel like a man.
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #445 on: April 12, 2012, 09:18:37 PM »
So there is this one girl at my Church, cute little blonde about my age. We don't talk very much, however, we have slightly been socializing a bit more, but not that much. Anyway, this saturday night for Pascha I kind of want to step it up a knotch with her. Wondering if anyone had any advice here since I'm a little sixteen year old and all of you wise old people have years of experience. What should I do? Stand by her, offer her my coat, put my arm around her, get a hotel, be a gentlemen, be an ass?

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.  Don't do it!  You are too young to end your life.

Best advice on this thread.  Don't start dating until you are ready to get married - realistically not until 22ish.   Figure out who you are first and live life a little.  The stress, pain, temptations and drama of dating just aren't worth it.  Marriage on the other hand certainly is. 

There's stress, pain, temptations and drama in dating? I'm not sure what dates you have been on.
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #446 on: April 18, 2012, 03:28:59 AM »
I'm so excited right now! Look at this email I just got...

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You have a new message from vicky23. It reads:

vicky44u@yahoo.comHello.My Name is vicky i want to your profile today at
(orthodoxchristiandating.com) and i love it i think we can clcik from
thier!please i will like you to email me back through my email
thus;(vicky44u@yahoo.com)  am waiting to recive your lovely reply
soonest! Yours vicky    !please contact me through my email address so
i can give you my picture and tell you my datel have a nice day.

What should I do? *squeeeeee*

Wow, I just got the same email yesterday.

Would you rather duel or share?

I say we find another woman to bring into the picture, then you can have one woman for a year and I'll have the other, and then after the year has concluded we will have an exchange ceremony and switch for the next year.

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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #447 on: April 18, 2012, 10:43:22 AM »
I'm so excited right now! Look at this email I just got...

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You have a new message from vicky23. It reads:

vicky44u@yahoo.comHello.My Name is vicky i want to your profile today at
(orthodoxchristiandating.com) and i love it i think we can clcik from
thier!please i will like you to email me back through my email
thus;(vicky44u@yahoo.com)  am waiting to recive your lovely reply
soonest! Yours vicky    !please contact me through my email address so
i can give you my picture and tell you my datel have a nice day.

What should I do? *squeeeeee*

Wow, I just got the same email yesterday.

Would you rather duel or share?

I say we find another woman to bring into the picture, then you can have one woman for a year and I'll have the other, and then after the year has concluded we will have an exchange ceremony and switch for the next year.

Sounds like a plan.  I think I found the other woman, and she really sounds like a keeper.  He name is Naomi and she's the daughter of General Joseph K'pondowa of Nigeria.  She said that she has quite a fortune built up from her late father who died in the recent civil war but needs a bank account to store it up in.  She had heard that I'm a reliable man with finances (looks like my exes haven't been slandering me afterall!) so she'd like to deposit the money in my account.  I sent her the account information last night, so by this afternoon I should be a millionaire!  Oh how grand life can be sometimes!
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #448 on: April 18, 2012, 10:56:33 AM »
Some people get all the breaks... *sigh*
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Re: Orthonorm's Dating and Relationship Advice Column
« Reply #449 on: April 19, 2012, 11:52:32 AM »
Some people get all the breaks... *sigh*
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