I hate trying to discern signals from women. Or maybe she's not sending a signal, in which case I hate deluding myself into thinking she might be. I like the one nurse at my doctor's office. Sometimes she does things that makes it seem like she's interested. Nothing terribly obvious. I could be completely wrong. And I might even take a chance in another context... but what if I'm wrong and ask her out and she says no? If I ask out someone at the bank, or gym, or whatever, and she says no, then that's fine. I move on with my life. But since I'll probably be discussing fairly private matters at the doctor's office, directly with her or at least while she's listening, it would seem a little awkward. I dunno. I still say that women should turn blue when they are within 5 feet of someone they are interested in dating.