Some more PROTIPS, and real advice, for the younger guys here. I may have said this stuff before, but maybe not. I'm only writing this cause I'm about to start up again...and just thinking about how awesome I am.
Today I want to talk about jumping from one relationship to the next and about the dating game.
If you just got out of a relationship, don't hop into another one without some sort of recoup period in between...you'll regret it everytime.
Gotta be alone for a little bit, try getting some booty without the strings.
Also people are going to say "Oh you'll get over it blah blah blah", but you know what there is a difference between getting over and moving on. This shows if you were ever in love in the first place.
Yeah that moving on bit is tough, but you really don't have a choice when it comes to getting over someone. It either happens or it doesn't. All you can do is live your life and try your best to forget.
But what do I know? Ultimately, you're the only one that knows you, but also you can only fool yourself.
OK now for all you younger guys that have not tried your hand at attracting a girl, some advice.
Never be lame and ask a girl if you want to kiss her, or do anything like that. They want you to take charge and have confidence.
Now if this girl is dating other men, big deal. You haven't lost, it just means you need to try harder. You gotta sweep the girl off her feet. Take her out on a few dates and make her feel awesome about herself, do the corny stuff if you really aren't creative about it like movies, dinner, etc.
But after that, don't be too lovely or come off as clingy. This will get her to crawl to you. But when this happens, you gotta keep the mushiness to a mininum, but still maintain some interest.
Then once you have her as your girlfriend then you can be great, get her flowers and candy, etc. But still do not be clingy. I know its all so cheezy, but girls love it. You gotta reel it in initially. I mean if you are giving a girl a bouquet of roses on a second date, you are doing it wrong. Do a single rose, it's more elegant and not overdone
NOW if the above doesn't work out with this girl, it will work out in other ways cause you know she will be telling all her friends about what happens and then they'll fall in love with you.
I'm not kidding. I had girls literally going bananas when they found out I was single cause they knew how devoted and amazingly charming/sweet I was to my ex-gf. Too bad I was still depressed after getting dumped, yet these girls are all trying to hang off me.
Also be a gentleman. Always open up the car door for the girl, push her chair in when sitting at a restaurant, etc. women really love it. When you have the oppurtunity to do something, don't say you are going to do it...JUST DO IT. Try not talking or announcing crap. Gotta keep a bit of mystery here.
Just don't come off as pathetic. I know its easy when you first get with a girl to try to avoid all the mistakes and say "sorry" all the time, but just stop.
Maybe I should come up with some corny stuff that has worked everytime.
Like if you are watching a movie at your house with a girl, you gotta get her to wonder why you haven't made a move on her yet. Then you make the move. Hey scary movies are pretty much the key to this. They get all scared and clingy, but you gotta make sure the room is pitch black. Give her a few pokes to scare the living daylights out of her. She'll slap your arm and say "omg stoppp"
Really do this a couple more times, then after that jump on her and start making out. It works.
Or maybe you try to bring up something about muscle aches and then you find a way to give her a back massage. Tell her to take her shirt off, lay on her stomach, and start massaging her back. Then after a while start kissing it, move up to her neck then ear (women go nutz over the nibbling ear), flip her over and start making out. And then you know where that leads next...
But you gotta take charge. Take her deep!
Or you could ignore all of the above and stop reading on how to get advice on dating from a bunch of internet wackos.