I had a strange facebook conversation with a family member and need some advice. My cousin has been married to this girl, Sarah, for about 4 years now. My cousin and I used to be almost like best friends, but somewhere in our 20s we drifted apart, mostly due to living too far away from each other. Anyway, so I see him a few times a year, we talk about what's been going on in our lives, that kinda stuff. So Sarah just messages me out of the blue on facebook (she's not a friend on there), and she says my cousin Blake doesn't treat her good, and that she is miserable, but she doesn't know what to do because she lost her job a couple months ago and has nowhere to go. So I didn't know what to say, cause that's kinda rough. I tried to figure out what options she had, like could she go live with her folks for a couple months, or some friends, or what?
Well finally she starts hinting that she would give whatever money she could to whoever would help her, that she'd help with housework, and so forth, and she started hinting that maybe she could move in with me. I didn't know what to say to that, so I just said that that sounded like it'd be awkward. Then she starts saying that she's been following me on facebook for months and she thinks we'd really connect and I should just give her a chance. At that point I was very confused, and I just said that she was like family with her being married to Blake and all, and it seemed weird, and she replied that we weren't really family, and that she was going to divorce Blake and then we could be together without any worries.
I told her that I didn't think that'd work, and tried to come up with all sorts of excuses, like how we had different interests, and how I'm 13 years younger than her, etc. Well that was a mistake, because she started getting mad and saying that she caught me several times looking at her at the family BBQ last summer, and how she knew she was my type from what Blake said about me, and on and on she went. I tried to calm her down, but she kept saying something like "well am I hot or not? well? well? well?" So finally I admitted that, yes, I thought she was very attractive. But I said that wasn't really what was important here. After that she started to berate me, saying that my head was shaped like a block, that I looked like a balding dufus, and stuff like that. I mean, that may all be true, but she didn't have to be so mean about it.
Anyway, so finally she said something like "omg hes back i need 2 go but i luv you could you let me move in wit you? ttyl" and then she signed out. What do I do guys? A part of me says to tell Blake what is going on, because he deserves to know what she's up to, but then I'm afraid if I tell him he either won't believe me or will pick a fight with me. He is nicknamed Buff Blake after all. On the other hand, I am single... so... but no, I can't do that... can I? I mean maybe I could let her sleep in the bedroom while I crash on the couch or something? Someone give me some advices I can use!