Author Topic: my friend needs your prayers again!  (Read 670 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline Tikhon.of.Colorado

  • Site Supporter
  • Archon
  • *****
  • Posts: 2,409
  • May she rest in peace.
my friend needs your prayers again!
« on: May 14, 2011, 09:42:27 PM »
a while ago, I posted on here for prayers for a friend who told me she was hurting herself after her brother had committed suicide.  she REALLY needs your prayers again, if you'd be so kind. in case you don't remember, she and I have the same godfather.  It is my opinion that she is seriously emotionally unstable.  she is an Orthodox Christian, and I try to get her to go to Church as often as she can (but that's a bit hard, as she now lives several states away).

she told me, over facebook, that last week her friend committed suicide. she was on the phone with him while he died.  she says he swallowed rat poison and cut an artery in his left arm so he'd go faster.  she stayed on the phone until he didn't respond anymore. 

she is posting some pretty scary stuff on facebook.  it's starting to affect me.  others at Church have told me that they just can't read them, because it makes them depressed.  she writes how cold and alone death is....God help her!

Offline biro

  • Site Supporter
  • Stratopedarches
  • *****
  • Posts: 18,759
    • St. George Church
Re: my friend needs your prayers again!
« Reply #1 on: May 14, 2011, 09:52:27 PM »
Lord, have mercy.

Holy Unmercenary healers, pray to God for her.

Offline NicholasMyra

  • Taxiarches
  • **********
  • Posts: 7,931
    • Hyperdox Herman
  • Faith: Orthodox
  • Jurisdiction: Partially-overlapping
Re: my friend needs your prayers again!
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2011, 12:21:58 AM »
Lord, have Mercy.
Dear God, please force me to salvation and together with me as many people as possible.

Vote for a Ministry section on OC.net

Offline quietmorning

  • Archon
  • ********
  • Posts: 2,433
  • St. Photini please pray for us!
  • Faith: Orthodox Christian
  • Jurisdiction: Antiochian
Re: my friend needs your prayers again!
« Reply #3 on: May 15, 2011, 09:04:39 AM »
Lord have mercy - Oh Holy Spirit, true comforter and giver of life, have mercy on this little one!
In His Mercy,
BethAnna

Offline akimori makoto

  • Archon
  • ********
  • Posts: 3,125
  • No-one bound by fleshly pleasures is worthy ...
Re: my friend needs your prayers again!
« Reply #4 on: May 15, 2011, 06:08:55 PM »
Trevor, I know this sounds strange and maybe dismissive but, in some social circles, it is very normal to post on facebook or myspace about the wish to die and to spend a lot of time thinking and talking about death. It is almost a sub-culture and it tends to attract certain young people.

Do you know the kind of world/people I am talking about? Is your friend involving herself with spiritually unhealthy things which might be exacerbating her grief at the loss of her brother and any other problems she might be experiencing?

I just wonder because I have met some people in my life (mostly teenagers) who are preoccupied with the idea of death and are not shy of broadcasting that preoccupation to the world. I think it is very dangerous when this preoccupation with death is normalised and celebrated, as it is in some places.

In any case, I've said a prayer for her just now. Keep praying!

The Episcopallian road is easy and wide, for many go through it to find destruction. lol sorry channeling Isa.

Offline Tikhon.of.Colorado

  • Site Supporter
  • Archon
  • *****
  • Posts: 2,409
  • May she rest in peace.
Re: my friend needs your prayers again!
« Reply #5 on: May 15, 2011, 11:51:36 PM »
Trevor, I know this sounds strange and maybe dismissive but, in some social circles, it is very normal to post on facebook or myspace about the wish to die and to spend a lot of time thinking and talking about death. It is almost a sub-culture and it tends to attract certain young people.

Do you know the kind of world/people I am talking about? Is your friend involving herself with spiritually unhealthy things which might be exacerbating her grief at the loss of her brother and any other problems she might be experiencing?

I just wonder because I have met some people in my life (mostly teenagers) who are preoccupied with the idea of death and are not shy of broadcasting that preoccupation to the world. I think it is very dangerous when this preoccupation with death is normalised and celebrated, as it is in some places.

In any case, I've said a prayer for her just now. Keep praying!


I know just what you mean. Yes, she fits the description of that group to a "t".  As far as I know, she is very into "Wicca". I guess she pretends to talk to fairies while she burns incense, or something like that.  as a result of this, she tells me, she doesn't like going to Church.

I will keep praying, and I appreciate your prayers!

Offline akimori makoto

  • Archon
  • ********
  • Posts: 3,125
  • No-one bound by fleshly pleasures is worthy ...
Re: my friend needs your prayers again!
« Reply #6 on: May 16, 2011, 02:24:39 AM »
I know just what you mean. Yes, she fits the description of that group to a "t".  As far as I know, she is very into "Wicca". I guess she pretends to talk to fairies while she burns incense, or something like that.  as a result of this, she tells me, she doesn't like going to Church.

Urrrgghh, I was expecting something like that would be the case (I will save my strong language for another thread, perhaps!).

I've just said another prayer for your friend.

Keep looking after her!
The Episcopallian road is easy and wide, for many go through it to find destruction. lol sorry channeling Isa.

Offline Gebre Menfes Kidus

  • "SERVANT of The HOLY SPIRIT"
  • Merarches
  • ***********
  • Posts: 9,566
  • Trolling Babylon 24/7, without apology!
    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1456515775
  • Faith: Ethiopian Orthodox Tewahedo
Re: my friend needs your prayers again!
« Reply #7 on: May 16, 2011, 02:59:10 AM »
Yes, Trevor, pray for her but don't communicate with her. It is very easy to get spiritually drained by such behavior. She may very well be demonically possessed, so her words and actions may be those of a demon. I'm not trying to be overly dramatic, but it is a very real possibility. The only help for her is to seek Christ and His Church. As long as she reject these spiritual Truths and Sacraments, then there is nothing you can say or do to help her. Simply tell her you will pray for her, and if she is ever interested in learning about Orthodoxy that you will be glad to try and help her learn (but make sure she undestands that you are not interested in debating her.)

"Lord have mercy."


Selam
"Bad art may be forgiven; but to remain unmoved by beauty will not. Doubts may be forgiven; but a lack of wonder will not. Tilting at windmills may be forgiven; but allowing our neighbors to be grinded in the gears will not. Denying the existence of the Creator may be forgiven; but ignoring the glories of creation will not."
+ Gebre Menfes Kidus +