The problem with this issue is that, unlike Orthodoxy most modern RC's don't have spiritual fathers. You just go to confession and take whatever priest is in the box. The parish I was in at the time had two or three priest assigned there. The firs time I spoke personally to the Msgr. who helped me out. The second I confessed to a Nigerian priest who was an assistant at the time. I thought about maybe going back to the Msgr. for some clarification, but I figured that the priest I confessed to should have been competent enough to give me the right advice so I just dropped the issue and considered myself back in the RCC.