Maybe, the answer NO, is what is best for you in the long run.
A friend of mine wanted to enter politics. She really, really wanted it. She had some sad things happen to her and everyone wanted her to be happy, so supported her in her race to get elected. Everyone hoped she would win.
We never see her in church anymore. She's too busy, too important,...and her "politics" don't follow the teachings of our Faith, anymore.
Now, we wish we had prayed that what was best for her be done....and that she would have lost the election. She would have been sad, but, would have gotten over it.
As it stands now, we've lost her.