I'm a guy, 17, and I have had the idea in my head for many years that sex is to be reserved for marriage. I can recall making the commitment to myself a long time ago.
Anyway, this issue is among one of the few that I feel alienates me from my male friends, including some who are Christian. They either take a less strict stance on the issue, or they reject it outright, with the exception of one. (It's not as if I act holier-than-thou or condemn them. I've said, "I don't approve of what you do, but I don't look down on you" countless times!) I'm not made fun of or anything, but I do feel internally alienated.
Basically, I wanted to use the Internet to find like-minded folk, but a Google search is not proving to be very fruitful. This does, quite honestly, make me wonder if I am normal, sometimes. So, I'd like to hear from men on this forum, particularly younger ones, who can demonstrate that I am not alone in this area.