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Offline KBN1

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Friend was assaulted.
« on: January 02, 2011, 08:22:06 PM »
A friend of mine was sexually assaulted by two men early on Saturday morning.  It happened while she was staying at a friend's house.  She has identified the men -- they are family members of the friend she was staying with, but she seems reluctant to press charges since she was able to fight them off.  12 years ago she was drugged and raped so this assault has opened those emotional wounds as well.  She is understandably still in shock.  Please pray for her.

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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #1 on: January 02, 2011, 08:26:34 PM »
Have mercy, O Lord.
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« Reply #2 on: January 02, 2011, 08:29:10 PM »
Lord have mercy.
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #3 on: January 02, 2011, 08:32:18 PM »
Lord, have mercy.
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #4 on: January 02, 2011, 08:33:20 PM »
Lord, have mercy.  :(

I really wish all women had the opportunity to learn martial arts/self-defense.  >:(
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #5 on: January 02, 2011, 08:38:50 PM »
Lord, have mercy.
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #6 on: January 02, 2011, 08:43:36 PM »
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #7 on: January 02, 2011, 08:44:38 PM »
Prayers ....
Lord Have Mercy....Amen Amen
She better find another Friend ....

Also Better report it to the police ,it could save,
Another Girl ,suffering the same fate.......

Prayers for her mental and spiritual recovery.....Amen Amen

Prayers To the Most Blessed Theotokos for her Help......Amen Amen
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #8 on: January 02, 2011, 08:52:13 PM »
Also Better report it to the police ,it could save,
Another Girl ,suffering the same fate.......

That is basically what I told her.  Guaranteed she is not the first and won't be the last woman abused by these men.

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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #9 on: January 02, 2011, 08:59:28 PM »
Also Better report it to the police ,it could save,
Another Girl ,suffering the same fate.......

That is basically what I told her.  Guaranteed she is not the first and won't be the last woman abused by these men.

As a good friend, you better report it, do her that favor....Once the police start questioning her, they will get the truth from her , they deal with this type of abuse many times so they know the signs..........
« Last Edit: January 02, 2011, 09:00:55 PM by stashko »
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #10 on: January 02, 2011, 09:04:43 PM »
Lord have mercy!
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #11 on: January 03, 2011, 12:46:47 AM »
Lord have Mercy.

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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #12 on: January 03, 2011, 01:54:52 AM »
Also Better report it to the police ,it could save,
Another Girl ,suffering the same fate.......

That is basically what I told her.  Guaranteed she is not the first and won't be the last woman abused by these men.

As a good friend, you better report it, do her that favor....Once the police start questioning her, they will get the truth from her , they deal with this type of abuse many times so they know the signs..........

I totally agree, but as she was telling me about it today I could tell the last thing she needed was another man bossing her around.  I suspect that she will be ready to talk to the police tomorrow. 

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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #13 on: January 03, 2011, 02:30:53 AM »
LORD have mercy.

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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #14 on: January 03, 2011, 09:38:02 AM »
Lord, have mercy!
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #15 on: January 03, 2011, 10:26:25 AM »

Lord, have mercy!
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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #16 on: January 06, 2011, 07:56:10 PM »
UPDATE:  My friend has talked to the cops and charges will be pressed.

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Re: Friend was assaulted.
« Reply #17 on: January 07, 2011, 02:39:36 AM »
UPDATE:  My friend has talked to the cops and charges will be pressed.

Most excellent News.... By Her going to the Police, she has Saved a few Girls ,the trauma having to go Thur that ordeal..... :police:
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