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« on: May 14, 2010, 11:45:01 PM »

Here's the scenario:

An elderly woman is in a nursing home for long term care, she is still cognoscente but her cognitive abilities aren't what they used to be, so conversations are typically brief and simple. She cannot walk and cannot sit up in a wheelchair for terribly long periods of time because of poor bone density and severe osteoporosis so it would be almost impossible for her to be able to endure the Liturgy on Sundays, but on a good day might be able to endure Vespers if the incense isn't too strong because she has end stage COPD.

She was raised Methodist mostly but was never a regular attendee even though she believes in God. Her son is a convert to Orthodoxy and she's been to a couple of Orthodox services in the past when she still had their health even though she was raised Protestant.

Now that she is approaching the end of her life, she has expressed a desire to have her son's priest come and pray with her and for her and has expressed some interest in converting and becoming Orthodox.

Can she be Chrismated? What kind of catechism would be appropriate for someone with limited cognitive capacities?
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« Reply #1 on: May 14, 2010, 11:49:55 PM »

Here's the scenario:

An elderly woman is in a nursing home for long term care, she is still cognoscente but her cognitive abilities aren't what they used to be, so conversations are typically brief and simple. She cannot walk and cannot sit up in a wheelchair for terribly long periods of time because of poor bone density and severe osteoporosis so it would be almost impossible for her to be able to endure the Liturgy on Sundays, but on a good day might be able to endure Vespers if the incense isn't too strong because she has end stage COPD.

She was raised Methodist mostly but was never a regular attendee even though she believes in God. Her son is a convert to Orthodoxy and she's been to a couple of Orthodox services in the past when she still had their health even though she was raised Protestant.

Now that she is approaching the end of her life, she has expressed a desire to have her son's priest come and pray with her and for her and has expressed some interest in converting and becoming Orthodox.

Can she be Chrismated? What kind of catechism would be appropriate for someone with limited cognitive capacities?
Of course she can be chrismated.  I would think the priest would know what was appropriate.
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« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2010, 10:01:43 AM »

The priest of my parish has indicated that he isn't quite sure how to proceed in this case. Any advice?
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« Reply #3 on: May 15, 2010, 10:25:08 AM »

The priest of my parish has indicated that he isn't quite sure how to proceed in this case. Any advice?
No bishop?

If you asked me (and you did), he should go over the points that a Methodist are required to renounce in the rite of reception.  We can assume that the Church believes those are the important points.  Once she answers to his satisfaction, he can give some general instruction on the elements on the Creed, and once that's done, chrismate her.

Part of the Faith is letting God fill in the blank spaces we cannot.
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« Reply #4 on: May 15, 2010, 10:36:33 AM »

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« Reply #5 on: May 15, 2010, 10:46:24 AM »

The priest of my parish has indicated that he isn't quite sure how to proceed in this case. Any advice?
No bishop?

If you asked me (and you did), he should go over the points that a Methodist are required to renounce in the rite of reception.  We can assume that the Church believes those are the important points.  Once she answers to his satisfaction, he can give some general instruction on the elements on the Creed, and once that's done, chrismate her.

Part of the Faith is letting God fill in the blank spaces we cannot.
Actually no we are currently without a bishop but the Metropolitan is bishop pro-tem for our diocese until a new bishop can be elected.

Seeing how she wasn't really ever a regular church goer and her mind just isn't as strong as it used to be, I'm not sure if she would even know what the Methodist rite of reception is exactly. I'm sure we'll figure out what to do though and if she really does want to convert then God willing, it will happen.
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« Reply #6 on: May 15, 2010, 10:46:53 AM »

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Now one of the criminals hanging there reviled Jesus, saying, "Are you not the Messiah? Save yourself and us." The other, however, rebuking him, said in reply, "Have you no fear of God, for you are subject to the same condemnation? And indeed, we have been condemned justly, for the sentence we received corresponds to our crimes, but this man has done nothing criminal." Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." He replied to him, "Amen, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise."
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« Reply #7 on: May 15, 2010, 11:30:15 PM »

My mother had Alzhiemer's disease. Several weeks before her death, she was chrismated Orthodox---during therecitation of the creed she became lucid and alert. Through out the chrismation, she answered all questions herself without prompting and remained so for three hours afterwards. She went to bed and awoke back to her dementia. MY priest said we had seen the Holy Spirit at work and we knew my mother's true wish to become Orthodox. She reposed the Saturday after her third communion.

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« Reply #8 on: May 16, 2010, 03:24:49 AM »

The priest of my parish has indicated that he isn't quite sure how to proceed in this case. Any advice?
No bishop?

If you asked me (and you did), he should go over the points that a Methodist are required to renounce in the rite of reception.  We can assume that the Church believes those are the important points.  Once she answers to his satisfaction, he can give some general instruction on the elements on the Creed, and once that's done, chrismate her.

Part of the Faith is letting God fill in the blank spaces we cannot.
Actually no we are currently without a bishop but the Metropolitan is bishop pro-tem for our diocese until a new bishop can be elected.

Seeing how she wasn't really ever a regular church goer and her mind just isn't as strong as it used to be, I'm not sure if she would even know what the Methodist rite of reception is exactly. I'm sure we'll figure out what to do though and if she really does want to convert then God willing, it will happen.

I've been told by an OCA priest in Atlanta who is part of the pro-tem, that they have been directed to consult His Eminence, +Met. ALEXIOS of the GOA for "small" matters, and should go up to +Met. JONAH for "big" matters.

I'm sure His Eminence would be happy to provide guidance that for something like this, as it isn't something that would affect the jurisdiction.
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« Reply #9 on: May 16, 2010, 06:38:02 AM »

The priest of my parish has indicated that he isn't quite sure how to proceed in this case. Any advice?
No bishop?

If you asked me (and you did), he should go over the points that a Methodist are required to renounce in the rite of reception.  We can assume that the Church believes those are the important points.  Once she answers to his satisfaction, he can give some general instruction on the elements on the Creed, and once that's done, chrismate her.

Part of the Faith is letting God fill in the blank spaces we cannot.
Actually no we are currently without a bishop but the Metropolitan is bishop pro-tem for our diocese until a new bishop can be elected.

Seeing how she wasn't really ever a regular church goer and her mind just isn't as strong as it used to be, I'm not sure if she would even know what the Methodist rite of reception is exactly. I'm sure we'll figure out what to do though and if she really does want to convert then God willing, it will happen.
Just to make clear, I was talking about the Orthodox rite of receiving Methodists, not the Methodists receiving anyone.
http://books.google.com/books?id=hVIXAAAAYAAJ&pg=PA603&dq=Hapgood+rite+of+reception+Confession&cd=1#v=onepage&q&f=false
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« Reply #10 on: May 16, 2010, 02:28:51 PM »

My mother had Alzhiemer's disease. Several weeks before her death, she was chrismated Orthodox---during therecitation of the creed she became lucid and alert. Through out the chrismation, she answered all questions herself without prompting and remained so for three hours afterwards. She went to bed and awoke back to her dementia. MY priest said we had seen the Holy Spirit at work and we knew my mother's true wish to become Orthodox. She reposed the Saturday after her third communion.

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Wonderful, wonderful story, Brother Thomas.  Thank you for sharing this with us!!  Smiley
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« Reply #11 on: May 16, 2010, 03:03:35 PM »

What if you're not on a death bed, but on a death taxi going 70 miles per deadly hour down death Avenue in New York Death City in the dead of winter?
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« Reply #12 on: May 16, 2010, 11:41:04 PM »

I would imagine yes. Just as the thief who confessed Christ: "And Jesus said unto him, Verily I say unto thee, To day shalt thou be with me in paradise." (Luke 23:43)
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« Reply #13 on: May 17, 2010, 09:14:51 AM »

Wasn't there a period in Church history (I want to say around St Augustine's time) where it was pretty standard to be baptized on your deathbed? There was a scrupulous concern about tarnishing one's baptism with sin.
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« Reply #14 on: May 17, 2010, 09:20:34 AM »

What if you're not on a death bed, but on a death taxi going 70 miles per deadly hour down death Avenue in New York Death City in the dead of winter?
Now you are just being a scholastic. Stop it.
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« Reply #15 on: May 17, 2010, 10:15:15 AM »

Anyone want to share the story of how Constantinople had Orthodoxy decreed as its official religion?

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« Reply #16 on: July 02, 2010, 10:17:35 PM »

With the blessing of his Beatitude, Metropolitan Jonah, my mother was Chrismated this past Sunday in the hospital. She had been unconscious and unresponsive, but awoke to receive Holy Communion and stayed awake for some time thereafter. Again she became unconscious and unresponsive, but again awoke to receive Holy Communion again yesterday. She fell asleep in the Lord today.

Grant repose O Lord to the soul of your servant Jeanette (Chrismated name - Anna), and grant her memory to be Eternal.
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« Reply #17 on: July 03, 2010, 12:13:11 AM »

God grant her rest with the saints and forgiveness of sins!
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« Reply #18 on: July 03, 2010, 09:27:32 AM »

Memory eternal!
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« Reply #19 on: July 04, 2010, 07:00:07 PM »

May Anna's Memory eternal!! Thank you for telling your story here. 
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« Reply #20 on: July 05, 2010, 02:11:53 PM »

being a hospice nurse for 15 years- i am usually the teller of such a happening....i thank you so much for sharing this with us...i am blessed and encouraged...
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« Reply #21 on: July 06, 2010, 09:48:00 AM »

May her memory be eternal!

I am happy that you too have seen the power of the Holy Spirit in your mother's entry into the Church and entry into the saints of heaven.

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« Reply #22 on: July 06, 2010, 10:15:24 AM »

Lord have mercy on your handmaiden!  Memory eternal!

And thanks for sharing this story!
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« Reply #23 on: July 10, 2010, 11:29:26 AM »

Now that I've had a little time to grieve, I want to share a bit more of the story:
http://www.monachos.net/forum/showthread.php?7282-Miracles-of-healing
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