I actually think that we are breaking up tomorrow.
I heard that he cheated on me from a very reliable source, and he said no, but for five days he's been made at me just for asking.
He's been ignoring me, talking down to me, today he was on and off he was happy then he'd ignore me and it was like that alot, he pins all of this blame on me just for asking?
He lied about my v-day present btw, and I'm going to make him pay me fourty five dollars because he got me nothing, he didn't reschedule our date to omak like he should have.
I'm so tired of this, he couldn't eve be happy for me, i picked out the most gorgeous prom dress and he just said " oh, yeah, it's cool" today I told him that I wanted to keep talking to him because I like talking to him his response "yeah, i know".
He drove me home and I said nothing to him until we hit my house, I told him that as a human being and as his girlfriend I don't deserve the way he is treating me. I also asked when he was going to be over it because I didn't deserve to very before I go to bed knowing he'll be mad at me tomorrow. his only response was "well i told you it wouldn't be instant"
I asked if he was going to be like this at prom too, once again he says nothing.
I'm going to give him until saturday to grow a pair or he is done, that is if we don't break up tomorrow.
I'm sorry I don't think it was wrong to set him straight eve though it just made him mad.
He's putting on such a huge defense that I bet he did.
The Holy Spirit is a better prom date than this guy will ever be.
Others have given you you such wise advice, I feel there is little I can add.
With all the popularity of Jane Austin movies in the last few years and all the discussion groups that have poped up, many young women or maybe some young women seem to be thinking that marriage is the aim of life.
The aim of life is theosis. We have a tradition in the Eastern Slavic tradition of Orthodoxy that the wife and husband are to be a starets and starytsia to each other: that they truly help each other on the road to theosis during their marriage.
When you are dating keep this in mind and ask yourself if the young man would help you to become more like Christ.
and no I don't believe that any teenage boy can make me more like Christ.
I think that this will only help me, because I want to date an orthodox boy, someone that has a strong relationship with Christ.
I hate highschool, and I wish I were in college right now because the guys are older and more mature, they may have the same intentions, but maybe a few of them can be good.
I'm trying to feel what it's like to be single and prepare myself right now.
I'm praying for Christ to protect me and strengthen me so I feel no sadness.