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Offline anna76

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My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« on: February 25, 2010, 05:11:43 AM »
Please everyone pray for me. I know there are worse things out there but my partner that have been with for a few years still lives at home.I live around the corner. His brother is very up and down with me and one minute likes me and the next hates me. I have had talks with him and than he settles down but than he acts the same all over again. It is causing problems in my relationship with my partner and I cant even go over my partners house because his brother is there. He just swears and curses at me and makes me cry all the time.
Now my partner that loves god is turning his back on god and doesnt want to do churchly things with me anymore. I am just crying all the time not knowing what to do. My  partner use to love god so much -he is going through alot of personal issues and I have tried to help him but I find both of us always fighting.
I feel like I am in prison and cant escape. I love my partner but how can I have a future with him if he is that close to his brother and doesnt stand up for me?
Please help :(

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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #1 on: February 25, 2010, 06:28:44 AM »
Lord, have mercy!
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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #2 on: February 25, 2010, 08:56:49 AM »
Lord have mercy!
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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #3 on: February 25, 2010, 10:13:55 AM »
Lord have mercy.
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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #4 on: February 25, 2010, 10:41:20 AM »

Lord, have mercy!
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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #5 on: February 25, 2010, 10:44:13 AM »
Lord, have mercy!
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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #6 on: February 25, 2010, 11:17:56 AM »
Lord, have mercy!
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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #7 on: February 25, 2010, 12:21:45 PM »
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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #8 on: February 25, 2010, 12:41:14 PM »
Lord, have mercy upon all those involved.
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Re: My parnters brother is making life so hard for me :(
« Reply #9 on: February 25, 2010, 03:05:30 PM »
Lord have Mercy.