Well I left the Indiana list after months of abuse and months of staying awake all night composing lengthy posts which were just responded to with more abuse.
And I left OrthodoxWest after I objected to it being considered fair game by the listowner, who I've known for many years on and of, that Roman Catholics should be called 'Papists' and I should be called a 'Monophysite' because it was an Orthodox list and if I didn't like it......
I've just tailed off other lists when they became fruitless and passion causing.
I am trying hard here to not respond to each and every polemical opportunity, to wait in patience and with thoughtfulness, and win friends rather than crush enemies under the weight of my gigantic intellect.
And the idea of wishing a blessing on the one that is being responded to what as good idea.