Before the CCEO came out and forbid it, the various Monsignor grades were given to our clergy, but ACROD did the same thing until Metropolitan Nicholas took over. As far as rector that is an office not title but it is the office hel by the head priest at the Seminary and the Cathedral. We also have parishes named for the Infant of Prague and the Sacred Heart.
Yes, many of our people are like Jeff. Very few of our parishes are like yours. In fact probably only a handful are. If you wish to be ordained for service in our Church you are going to have to come to terms with the fact that some of our parishes and parishioners make every criticism the Orthodox have valid. It is our job to walk the long road of restoration, which, honestly, is only just beginning.