LOL. Get your mind out of the gutter. I was talking about my
fat gut weight issues (about 225 lbs. at 5'9")
Wow! I'm 5'9" and 225 is a long term goal for me
On the subject: One thing I admire from the Ethiopian Church is the uniformity in dress in their liturgical services, where everyone is all in white. Perhaps, if churches have issues with modesty and becomes a major problem, we can look towards something like that.
Why not try to develop uniformity? If not though, there's another solution. We Copts tend to encourage our congregation to close their eyes when they pray. That helps me a lot, and yes, I confess the temptation is sometimes great, since for most of my life in the Church, I would stand with the singers, readers, and subdeacons, and not with the congregants, and never really looked behind me to see what everyone looked like. But days when I do stand with the congregants, the more back of the church I stood, the more I was distracted, not just by what I see, but also by an increased noise level too.
This whole idea of uniformity reminds me of an Egyptian proverb that we used to bother our grandmother who didn't like our heart attack breakfast mixes: Eat whatever you like, but dress like everyone around you.