Thank Mor, as I was going to poke him hard to wake him up, though he has not been a parent and it is scary so maybe allow this old man to bore him with a few tips.
Love your wife.
Grow your Church, starting in your home.
Shoot your TV.
Love your wife.
Do NOT come to California as we fell into the ocean and died around 1963 and it's not been......well.
I hope you have some Church to attend, as you did not indicate such. If you do then stay and grow.
Your wife knows what you never learned so listen to her.
You are anxious and rightly so, looking out at the world finding we live in a crazy place/time.
Close the door to your home and shut out the "media" (world) and love your family, daily, hourly and moment by moment. It is guaranteed that when you do that then your children will be healthy, grow in wisdom and strength and be a delight.
As a dad, after the baby is born you may suffer a little. You may become a non-person, maybe feel down and wonder at times just what your function is, so I will tell you.
Take heart. Your function will be to give your wife as much rest and sleep, especially for the first year, as possible.
For the first five years simply delight in your babies (have a bunch) but it will be tough so you must be too. Take lots of photos.
After year 5 they slowly become YOURS and that is the best of times. As you have loved your wife and God (in no particular order) you will then find such joy as to burst hourly, if not moment by moment.
Again, take heart; you are not the first guy to be a dad, nor the first to parent children. Your progenitors did it, and by your striving you will do it to and even be more successful than they.
Love your wife.....and soon your child......and God (again, in no particular order at this time)