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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #45 on: October 27, 2009, 06:29:06 PM »
Becuase of the fall it seems that there is no one who is 100% pure hetero never having had an attraction to a person of the same gender. It seems that the problem of indulging these homosexual temptations.

Nonsense. I, for one, have NEVER been moved to consider anyone of my own sex sexually attractive. Moreover, having had a colonoscopy a few years ago removed any possible lingering curiosity.  :P :P :P
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #46 on: October 27, 2009, 06:35:33 PM »
Try link again.

http://www.marriagedebate.com/pdf/SSdivorcerisk.pdf

SAME-SEX UNIONS AND DIVORCE RISK:
DATA FROM SWEDEN
Maggie Gallagher & Joshua K. Baker
 
A recent study offers the first systematic
review of same-sex unions and divorce rates
based on accurate national register data in
Sweden from the 1990’s.1
The study found that gay male couples
were 1.5 times as likely (or 50 percent more
likely) to divorce as married opposite-sex
couples, while lesbian couples were 2.67
times as likely (167 percent more likely) to
divorce as opposite-sex married couples
over a similar period of time.2 Even after
controlling for demographic characteristics
associated with increased risk of divorce,
male same-sex couples were 1.35 times as
likely (35 percent more likely) to divorce,
and lesbian couples were three times as
likely (200 percent more likely) to divorce as
opposite-sex married couples.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #47 on: October 27, 2009, 06:44:32 PM »
Becuase of the fall it seems that there is no one who is 100% pure hetero never having had an attraction to a person of the same gender. It seems that the problem of indulging these homosexual temptations.

Nonsense. I, for one, have NEVER been moved to consider anyone of my own sex sexually attractive. Moreover, having had a colonoscopy a few years ago removed any possible lingering curiosity.  :P :P :P
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #48 on: October 27, 2009, 06:59:47 PM »
Becuase of the fall it seems that there is no one who is 100% pure hetero never having had an attraction to a person of the same gender. It seems that the problem of indulging these homosexual temptations.

Nonsense. I, for one, have NEVER been moved to consider anyone of my own sex sexually attractive. Moreover, having had a colonoscopy a few years ago removed any possible lingering curiosity.  :P :P :P
Sure  you've never had a single attraction at all to any person of the same gender. That a pretty impossible tale for me to swallow.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #49 on: October 27, 2009, 07:12:40 PM »
Becuase of the fall it seems that there is no one who is 100% pure hetero never having had an attraction to a person of the same gender. It seems that the problem of indulging these homosexual temptations.

Nonsense. I, for one, have NEVER been moved to consider anyone of my own sex sexually attractive. Moreover, having had a colonoscopy a few years ago removed any possible lingering curiosity.  :P :P :P
Sure  you've never had a single attraction at all to any person of the same gender. That a pretty impossible tale for me to swallow.

Perhaps. You may choose not to believe me, but it's the truth. Even as a teenager, the idea of same-sex sexual attraction revolted me. And I'm sure I'm not the only one out of several billion people on this earth.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #50 on: October 27, 2009, 07:31:56 PM »
But we shouldn't call all people to be healthier?
Difficult question because we are dealing with something which is "unhealthy" according to some people's definition and not others.
So I wonder where we should turn for the "ortho" definition?  ;)


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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #51 on: October 27, 2009, 07:33:52 PM »
"STOCKHOLM  —  The Church of Sweden has decided to allow its priests to wed same-sex couples in new gender-neutral church ceremonies.."
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,569107,00.html

You're Jewish so why do you care? Just curious.
It's religious news I saw and thought would be of interest.

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Well, Dr. Seuss, I just think it's odd that a Jewish person would post Protestant news on an Eastern Orthodox Christian forum, that's all.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #52 on: October 27, 2009, 07:39:38 PM »
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Becuase of the fall it seems that there is no one who is 100% pure hetero never having had an attraction to a person of the same gender. It seems that the problem of indulging these homosexual temptations.

So on a continuum that had 1) totally heterosexual, 2) heteroflexible, 3) bisexual, 4) totally homosexual, 5) pansexual, you wouldn't put anyone (or almost anyone) in the first, totally heterosexual, category?

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« Reply #53 on: October 27, 2009, 08:16:18 PM »
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Becuase of the fall it seems that there is no one who is 100% pure hetero never having had an attraction to a person of the same gender. It seems that the problem of indulging these homosexual temptations.

So on a continuum that had 1) totally heterosexual, 2) heteroflexible, 3) bisexual, 4) totally homosexual, 5) pansexual, you wouldn't put anyone (or almost anyone) in the first, totally heterosexual, category?
The higher one’s sex drive, the less restricted is one’s sociosexual orientation.

Females’ sexual urges (attraction to men or women) are highly correlated to their self-control. 

Males’ self control is ONLY correlated with less restrictive sociosexuality (casual sex). 

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« Reply #54 on: October 27, 2009, 08:20:49 PM »
Interesting, if true. :)

Btw, I made a mistake in putting pansexual in the fifth place, since it doesn't really fit there on the continuum. I don't suppose pansexuality would fit anywhere on the continuum.

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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #55 on: October 27, 2009, 08:22:04 PM »
^You forgot asexual.   I think it only includes about 2% of the population but they should still be represented.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #56 on: October 27, 2009, 08:47:08 PM »
^You forgot asexual.   I think it only includes about 2% of the population but they should still be represented.

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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #57 on: October 27, 2009, 09:29:10 PM »
But we shouldn't call all people to be healthier?
Difficult question because we are dealing with something which is "unhealthy" according to some people's definition and not others.
So I wonder where we should turn for the "ortho" definition?  ;)
Which "we" are you talking about? The Church of Sweden? That was my point. The Muslims think Sweden should be Muslim, the Roman Catholics think Sweden should be Roman Catholic, Dawkins thinks Sweden should be Atheist......
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #58 on: October 27, 2009, 09:36:21 PM »
The CoS has no argument in its favor of its recent deision that can withstand scrutiny.  None.  It is simply being of the world, and rubber stamping the world's agenda.  Such is not the Gospel.
You mean, like permitting divorcees to remarry even though Christ Himself forbade it in the Gospel?
I do believe we have gone over that misguided canard a couple times.  Do a search.
You believe wrong. The question is simple: is the marriage bed of a divorcee who remarries defiled?
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« Reply #59 on: October 27, 2009, 09:44:36 PM »
But we shouldn't call all people to be healthier?
Difficult question because we are dealing with something which is "unhealthy" according to some people's definition and not others.
So I wonder where we should turn for the "ortho" definition?  ;)
Which "we" are you talking about?
Humans. 

And before you me give some cockamamie runaround, why are you an Orthodox Christian?  Because that's what your daddy is and by golly it's good enough for you too?  Or because you recognize it's a hospital for the soul needing to become healthy?
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #60 on: October 27, 2009, 09:51:30 PM »
But we shouldn't call all people to be healthier?
Difficult question because we are dealing with something which is "unhealthy" according to some people's definition and not others.
So I wonder where we should turn for the "ortho" definition?  ;)
Which "we" are you talking about?
Humans. 

And before you me give some cockamamie runaround, why are you an Orthodox Christian?  Because that's what your daddy is and by golly it's good enough for you too?  Or because you recognize it's a hospital for the soul needing to become healthy?
You still don't get it. Why is a Muslim convert a Muslim? Don't they recognise it as the truth? Shouldn't Muslims therefore impose their beliefs on the Church of Sweden? The Church of Sweden made a considered decision, and you are saying that they must reconsider because you are an Orthodox Christian (or is it because you are American?). It just doesn't make sense in the first place, and  in the second place I don't understand why you even care what the Church of Sweden does.
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« Reply #61 on: October 27, 2009, 11:37:25 PM »
But we shouldn't call all people to be healthier?
Difficult question because we are dealing with something which is "unhealthy" according to some people's definition and not others.
So I wonder where we should turn for the "ortho" definition?  ;)
Which "we" are you talking about?
Humans. 

And before you me give some cockamamie runaround, why are you an Orthodox Christian?  Because that's what your daddy is and by golly it's good enough for you too?  Or because you recognize it's a hospital for the soul needing to become healthy?
You still don't get it. Why is a Muslim convert a Muslim?

LOL.  You asked that of the wrong person.  I doubt you'll be able to handle his answer, should he so choose.

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Don't they recognise it as the truth? Shouldn't Muslims therefore impose their beliefs on the Church of Sweden?

Should they?  No, but that is only because I know better.  They are, however, and in fact the CoS is inviting them to do it. Sweden is a lovely example of liberal guilt: the Swedes encountered no Muslims to speak of, but they are going to "rectify" things.  The LARGE numbers, now in Sweden, of Christians who have fled Islam have brought it to the CoS attention that they know a thing or two about Islam.

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The Church of Sweden made a considered decision, and you are saying that they must reconsider because you are an Orthodox Christian (or is it because you are American?).

Or maybe because they claim to be an Apostolic Church and Apostolic Christianity teaches no such thing.


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It just doesn't make sense in the first place, and  in the second place I don't understand why you even care what the Church of Sweden does.

Leaving aside why you, way down under, care about what someone in the stix of middle America (no offense Gabriel, just for effect) cares about the CoS is a more interesting (and no doubt contorted) question: we have plenty of those who run after the latest fool thing that they are doing in Sweden, including the one now running....perhaps that would be in politics.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #62 on: October 27, 2009, 11:50:55 PM »
The CoS has no argument in its favor of its recent deision that can withstand scrutiny.  None.  It is simply being of the world, and rubber stamping the world's agenda.  Such is not the Gospel.
You mean, like permitting divorcees to remarry even though Christ Himself forbade it in the Gospel?
I do believe we have gone over that misguided canard a couple times.  Do a search.
You believe wrong. The question is simple: is the marriage bed of a divorcee who remarries defiled?

Start another thread if you want that answered (again).

In the meantime, answer the question of this thread: is the bed of homosexuals ever pure?
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« Reply #63 on: October 27, 2009, 11:52:42 PM »
But we shouldn't call all people to be healthier?
Difficult question because we are dealing with something which is "unhealthy" according to some people's definition and not others.
So I wonder where we should turn for the "ortho" definition?  ;)
Which "we" are you talking about?
Humans. 

And before you me give some cockamamie runaround, why are you an Orthodox Christian? 

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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #64 on: October 28, 2009, 12:10:12 AM »
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In the meantime, answer the question of this thread: is the bed of homosexuals ever pure?

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« Reply #65 on: October 28, 2009, 12:26:37 AM »
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Answer, anyone?

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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #66 on: October 28, 2009, 02:33:31 AM »
I vote another no, but what do I know?  ;)

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« Reply #67 on: October 28, 2009, 04:04:46 AM »
In the meantime, answer the question of this thread: is the bed of homosexuals ever pure?
It can be undefiled I think- just as the marriage bed of a remarried divorcee is.
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« Reply #68 on: October 28, 2009, 05:29:36 AM »
But we shouldn't call all people to be healthier?
Difficult question because we are dealing with something which is "unhealthy" according to some people's definition and not others.
So I wonder where we should turn for the "ortho" definition?  ;)
Which "we" are you talking about?
Humans. 

And before you me give some cockamamie runaround, why are you an Orthodox Christian? 

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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #69 on: October 28, 2009, 09:41:25 AM »
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Becuase of the fall it seems that there is no one who is 100% pure hetero never having had an attraction to a person of the same gender. It seems that the problem of indulging these homosexual temptations.

So on a continuum that had 1) totally heterosexual, 2) heteroflexible, 3) bisexual, 4) totally homosexual, 5) pansexual, you wouldn't put anyone (or almost anyone) in the first, totally heterosexual, category?
I can't imgagine a case. I would think of people who are very very very close to 100% heterosexual their entire life but I would treat 100% heterosexual as an asymptote that one might get extremely close to but never touch. Every heterosexual that I have been close enough to to ask as told me that they have indeed had at least one gay thought/attraction in their lives. I'm not saying that such is natural to man, but is rather a result of the fall.
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« Reply #70 on: October 28, 2009, 09:44:52 AM »
In the meantime, answer the question of this thread: is the bed of homosexuals ever pure?
It can be undefiled I think- just as the marriage bed of a remarried divorcee is.

Really???  ???
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« Reply #71 on: October 28, 2009, 09:47:22 AM »
In the meantime, answer the question of this thread: is the bed of homosexuals ever pure?
It can be undefiled I think- just as the marriage bed of a remarried divorcee is.

Really???  ???
Yes, it's true. The Orthodox Church permits divorcees to remarry.
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« Reply #72 on: October 28, 2009, 09:53:52 AM »
In the meantime, answer the question of this thread: is the bed of homosexuals ever pure?
It can be undefiled I think- just as the marriage bed of a remarried divorcee is.

Really???  ???
Yes, it's true. The Orthodox Church permits divorcees to remarry.
No, I know that. I am just shocked that you think that homosexual relationships can ber permissabile for a Christian. Would your priest or hierarchs agree with you?
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« Reply #73 on: October 28, 2009, 10:21:31 AM »
No, I know that.
I know you do, I was just being silly.

I am just shocked that you think that homosexual relationships can ber permissabile for a Christian.
Why are you shocked? Does what I think really matter that much? :D

Would your priest or hierarchs agree with you?
I haven't discussed it with my Bishop, but I have discussed it with two Parish Priests, my current Spiritual Father and the Abbot of the monastery where I am churched. The answers I've received are a lot more complicated than my opinion and range from "no" to a definite "not entirely certain" and include things like "condescension", but none of them treated my questions as unaskable as though the case is closed (unlike what we tend to find in online discussion forums).
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #74 on: October 28, 2009, 10:28:09 AM »
I know you do, I was just being silly.
One of your favorite pass-times.  ;) I jest.
Why are you shocked? Does what I think really matter that much? :D
It surprizes me because your Church seems to be firmly set against it. Since you seem to be very knowledgeable about Eastern Orthodoxy and it appears that being withing the bounds of orthodoxy is important to you, I would think you would go with your Church on this matter.
I haven't discussed it with my Bishop, but I have discussed it with two Parish Priests, my current Spiritual Father and the Abbot of the monastery where I am churched. The answers I've received are a lot more complicated than my opinion and range from "no" to a definite "not entirely certain" and include things like "condescension", but none of them treated my questions as unaskable as though the case is closed (unlike what we tend to find in online discussion forums).
Interesting. I understand why a person would feel the way you do, but its just suprising to hear from an Orthodox Christian. In my more emotional moments I would like to agree with you but in my more logical ones I know that I cannot. Although I disagree with you I am sympathetic to your view.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #75 on: October 28, 2009, 10:54:08 AM »
It surprizes me because your Church seems to be firmly set against it.
My Archdiocese has actually said nothing about the issue, and in fact, I can't recall His All-Holiness discussing the issue either. I've never heard a sermon about it. But I do understand what you mean in that the Church does not bless gay unions.

Since you seem to be very knowledgeable about Eastern Orthodoxy and it appears that being withing the bounds of orthodoxy is important to you, I would think you would go with your Church on this matter.
I am with my Church in all things concerning Dogma, but I'm not sure people on this forum (including the Orthodox) actually realize that the moral teaching of the Church is not necessarily Dogma. There is no "Orthodox" morality, there is just morality. Some moral teachings are relative (culturally determined), some are absolute (eg bayonetting babies is morally wrong no matter what). But I don't think that a moral teaching is automatically considered absolute simply because it is mentioned in the New Testament (for example, women covering their heads in worship or that divorcees remarrying is adultery).
 
Interesting. I understand why a person would feel the way you do, but its just suprising to hear from an Orthodox Christian. In my more emotional moments I would like to agree with you but in my more logical ones I know that I cannot. Although I disagree with you I am sympathetic to your view.
Thanks for respecting my opinion, and rest assured that I respect yours. I'd like it noted however (for the minutes as it were) that it is not just a "feeling" on my part, but a considered opinion.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #76 on: October 28, 2009, 10:58:39 AM »
 
Thanks for respecting my opinion, and rest assured that I respect yours. I'd like it noted however (for the minutes as it were) that it is not just a "feeling" on my part, but a considered opinion.
I am sorry. I didn't mean to mischaracterize your view on the matter. I completely understand that you have spent time thinking out your belief concerning this moral issue.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #77 on: October 28, 2009, 11:10:06 AM »
In the meantime, answer the question of this thread: is the bed of homosexuals ever pure?
It can be undefiled I think- just as the marriage bed of a remarried divorcee is.


Care to back that up with anything else besides your "considered opinion," which on its face is unsupported by Scripture, the Fathers or Holy Tradition?  Because, as already posted I believe elsewhere, the purity of the remarried (innocent) divorcee can be supported by Scripture, the Fathers and Holy Tradition.  Your fondness for this canard is duly noted.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #78 on: October 28, 2009, 11:14:47 AM »
In the meantime, answer the question of this thread: is the bed of homosexuals ever pure?
It can be undefiled I think- just as the marriage bed of a remarried divorcee is.

Really???  ???
Yes, it's true. The Orthodox Church permits divorcees to remarry.
Some divorcees.  The lax attitude about it that many take (and upon which, I take it, your argument depends) doesn't fall under economia.  It's called lawless abuse.

No, I know that.
I know you do, I was just being silly.

I am just shocked that you think that homosexual relationships can ber permissabile for a Christian.
Why are you shocked? Does what I think really matter that much? :D

Would your priest or hierarchs agree with you?
I haven't discussed it with my Bishop, but I have discussed it with two Parish Priests, my current Spiritual Father and the Abbot of the monastery where I am churched. The answers I've received are a lot more complicated than my opinion and range from "no" to a definite "not entirely certain" and include things like "condescension", but none of them treated my questions as unaskable as though the case is closed (unlike what we tend to find in online discussion forums).

Interesting. What else is "not entirely certain?"  Because the massive rewritting of the Orthodox marriage rite done by those who use it for homosexual "marriages" (I'm quite well aware that it has been done), is a first indication that yes, this matter is more definitely closed.

It surprizes me because your Church seems to be firmly set against it.
My Archdiocese has actually said nothing about the issue, and in fact, I can't recall His All-Holiness discussing the issue either. I've never heard a sermon about it. But I do understand what you mean in that the Church does not bless gay unions.

And what more does your archdiocese or His All-Holiness need to say on the matter? And if they did, do you think it would change things?


Since you seem to be very knowledgeable about Eastern Orthodoxy and it appears that being withing the bounds of orthodoxy is important to you, I would think you would go with your Church on this matter.
I am with my Church in all things concerning Dogma, but I'm not sure people on this forum (including the Orthodox) actually realize that the moral teaching of the Church is not necessarily Dogma. There is no "Orthodox" morality, there is just morality.

Then why the questioning of us "butting in" into the CoS's business on this issue?



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Some moral teachings are relative (culturally determined), some are absolute (eg bayonetting babies is morally wrong no matter what). But I don't think that a moral teaching is automatically considered absolute simply because it is mentioned in the New Testament (for example, women covering their heads in worship or that divorcees remarrying is adultery).

This is something neither culturally determined, nor relative: it is absolute, and more than just casually "mentioned" in the New Testament.


Interesting. I understand why a person would feel the way you do, but its just suprising to hear from an Orthodox Christian. In my more emotional moments I would like to agree with you but in my more logical ones I know that I cannot. Although I disagree with you I am sympathetic to your view.
Thanks for respecting my opinion, and rest assured that I respect yours. I'd like it noted however (for the minutes as it were) that it is not just a "feeling" on my part, but a considered opinion.

Arius, Nestorius, Eutyches, Sergius, Leo III and many others had "considered opinions."
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #79 on: October 28, 2009, 11:22:58 AM »
I know you do, I was just being silly.
One of your favorite pass-times.  ;) I jest.
Why are you shocked? Does what I think really matter that much? :D
It surprizes me because your Church seems to be firmly set against it.

She is. And so shall She remain. (your church is also firmly set against it,but I think you already know that.  We only disagree that she will always remain so).


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and it appears that being withing the bounds of orthodoxy is important to you, I would think you would go with your Church on this matter.
George seems to be trying to exercise "change the timeless teaching of the Church" option.  We know where that usually leads.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #80 on: October 28, 2009, 11:27:41 AM »

She is. And so shall She remain. (your church is also firmly set against it,but I think you already know that.  We only disagree that she will always remain so).

I am glad that both of our Churches are witnesses to the truth on this matter even though the truth here is very painful.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #81 on: October 28, 2009, 11:31:33 AM »
the purity of the remarried (innocent) divorcee can be supported by Scripture
So are you are claiming that the Orthodox Church only permits divorce in cases of adultery (in accordance with Scripture) and that only the "innocent" divorcee is permitted to remarry?

Firstly, lets look at the Scripture: "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for fornication, and marries another, commits adultery, and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.”  (Matthew 19:9) In the first part of the verse, the husband is the "innocent" partner, yet he is told that even if he divorces his fornicating wife and remarries, he is an adulterer. Secondly, divorced adulterers, after being received back into the Church, are permitted to remarry.

The lax attitude about it that many take (and upon which, I take it, your argument depends) doesn't fall under economia.  It's called lawless abuse.
I fear the Orthodox Church will always be too "lax" you you ialmisry.
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« Reply #82 on: October 28, 2009, 11:35:52 AM »
the purity of the remarried (innocent) divorcee can be supported by Scripture
So are you are claiming that the Orthodox Church only permits divorce in cases of adultery (in accordance with Scripture) and that only the "innocent" divorcee is permitted to remarry?

Firstly, lets look at the Scripture: "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for fornication, and marries another, commits adultery, and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.”  (Matthew 19:9) In the first part of the verse, the husband is the "innocent" partner, yet he is told that even if he divorces his fornicating wife and remarries, he is an adulterer. Secondly, divorced adulterers, after being received back into the Church, are permitted to remarry.

If we were proof-texting Protestants, you might have had a case.  But we are not, nor is the Church.  How do the Fathers, Tradition and the practice of the Church across the ages interpret it?

Btw, the Antiochian Archdiocese recently reiterated that a priest must first ascertain that the remarriage is not an affair of the previous marriage, in which case no marriage can take place, a few years earlier the Patriarch of Romania stopped dead in its tracks, with his statement "marriage ends only by death or adultery", the liberalization of the divorce laws, and before that the OCA in its statute inserted that an investigation of the divorce must be conducted after attempts of reconciliation (the practice of the OCA is not to recognize the divorce at all until the issue of remarriage comes up), and it must specify whether one is able to remarry.

The lax attitude about it that many take (and upon which, I take it, your argument depends) doesn't fall under economia.  It's called lawless abuse.
I fear the Orthodox Church will always be too "lax" you you ialmisry.

No, she is quite fine in my book.  The Good Book.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #83 on: October 28, 2009, 11:44:36 AM »
If we were proof-texting Protestants, you might have had a case.  But we are not, nor is the Church.  How do the Fathers, Tradition and the practice of the Church across the ages interpret it?
Here is a good article about it from His Grace Athenagoras, Bishop of Sinope:
http://www.orthodoxresearchinstitute.org/articles/liturgics/athenagoras_remarriage.htm
It not only mentions the Early Fathers understanding of the indissolubility of marriage, but also discusses things such as the pastoral approach to young people who co-habitate. I especially like His Grace's statement: "What is certain is that one should not be moralising or too severe in these situations with regard to the youth, otherwise one will certainly not be heard."
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #84 on: October 28, 2009, 11:51:24 AM »
So are you are claiming that the Orthodox Church only permits divorce in cases of adultery (in accordance with Scripture) and that only the "innocent" divorcee is permitted to remarry?

IIRC, the "non-innocent" divorcee has been permitted to remarry in a few cases, but after a considerable period of time.  But no, the Church does not in practice restrict ecclesiastically-permitted divorce to merely adultery/fornication; I'm positive cases of spousal abuse, theft & abandonment, and the like have also been accepted.  Usually if there is an "innocent" party, their re-marriage is treated as a first marriage unless the other party is also a divorcee.

Firstly, lets look at the Scripture: "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for fornication, and marries another, commits adultery, and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.”  (Matthew 19:9) In the first part of the verse, the husband is the "innocent" partner, yet he is told that even if he divorces his fornicating wife and remarries, he is an adulterer.

Usually the word "except" indicates that a class of persons or actions that follows the word are exempted from the indicated course of action in the rest of the sentence (e.g. "all of the prisoners except those in solitary confinement were out in the exercise yard" or "all the teachers in the school except the interns received a pay-raise this year"); in this case, those who divorce because of fornication being exempted from the remainder of the declaration.  Based on the context, the sentence can be re-stated without changing/losing meaning as "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, except those who divorce for fornication."

The lax attitude about it that many take (and upon which, I take it, your argument depends) doesn't fall under economia.  It's called lawless abuse.
I fear the Orthodox Church will always be too "lax" you you ialmisry.

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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #85 on: October 28, 2009, 11:59:18 AM »
It not only mentions the Early Fathers understanding of the indissolubility of marriage, but also discusses things such as the pastoral approach to young people who co-habitate. I especially like His Grace's statement: "What is certain is that one should not be moralising or too severe in these situations with regard to the youth, otherwise one will certainly not be heard."

Ahh, but avoiding moralization and severity doesn't equate to lying, rather it is an approach that seeks to acknowledge sinfulness and mistake while emphasizing above all that repentance is always available to those who need it and who seek it from the Lord.  While having a conversation with a group of teenagers about sex & sexuality (a situation I found myself in repeatedly before ordination), the message is always first, "As long as you have breath in your lungs, you can make up for your mistakes, and no mistake you make on this Earth is too great for the mercy of the Lord," and then what follows is a presentation of the truth that is age-specific.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #86 on: October 28, 2009, 08:59:23 PM »
So are you are claiming that the Orthodox Church only permits divorce in cases of adultery (in accordance with Scripture) and that only the "innocent" divorcee is permitted to remarry?

IIRC, the "non-innocent" divorcee has been permitted to remarry in a few cases, but after a considerable period of time.  But no, the Church does not in practice restrict ecclesiastically-permitted divorce to merely adultery/fornication; I'm positive cases of spousal abuse, theft & abandonment, and the like have also been accepted.  Usually if there is an "innocent" party, their re-marriage is treated as a first marriage unless the other party is also a divorcee.
So "innocent" and "non-innocent" (aka "guilty") divorcees both can remarry in the Orthodox Church, and divorce is granted for reasons other than adultery. Kind of what I am saying,

Usually the word "except" indicates that a class of persons or actions that follows the word are exempted from the indicated course of action in the rest of the sentence (e.g. "all of the prisoners except those in solitary confinement were out in the exercise yard" or "all the teachers in the school except the interns received a pay-raise this year"); in this case, those who divorce because of fornication being exempted from the remainder of the declaration.  Based on the context, the sentence can be re-stated without changing/losing meaning as "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, except those who divorce for fornication."
Interesting. However, since the Orthodox Church permits divorce for reasons other than fornication, she is still not "covered" by this verse- not that I have a problem with that, since it proves my point that an ethical verse is not absolute simply for being in the NT.
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« Reply #87 on: October 28, 2009, 10:00:35 PM »
So are you are claiming that the Orthodox Church only permits divorce in cases of adultery (in accordance with Scripture) and that only the "innocent" divorcee is permitted to remarry?

IIRC, the "non-innocent" divorcee has been permitted to remarry in a few cases, but after a considerable period of time.  But no, the Church does not in practice restrict ecclesiastically-permitted divorce to merely adultery/fornication; I'm positive cases of spousal abuse, theft & abandonment, and the like have also been accepted.  Usually if there is an "innocent" party, their re-marriage is treated as a first marriage unless the other party is also a divorcee.
So "innocent" and "non-innocent" (aka "guilty") divorcees both can remarry in the Orthodox Church, and divorce is granted for reasons other than adultery. Kind of what I am saying,

Usually the word "except" indicates that a class of persons or actions that follows the word are exempted from the indicated course of action in the rest of the sentence (e.g. "all of the prisoners except those in solitary confinement were out in the exercise yard" or "all the teachers in the school except the interns received a pay-raise this year"); in this case, those who divorce because of fornication being exempted from the remainder of the declaration.  Based on the context, the sentence can be re-stated without changing/losing meaning as "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, except those who divorce for fornication."
Interesting. However, since the Orthodox Church permits divorce for reasons other than fornication, she is still not "covered" by this verse- not that I have a problem with that, since it proves my point that an ethical verse is not absolute simply for being in the NT.


And tell us George, how we cannot justify murder the same way?  Let's talk about killing you disapprove of, like war.  How is it that we should fell any moral twinge about, say, pacifying a few villages, or maybe many, as it seems the NT has no absolutes.

And while your at it, returning to the topic of this thread, what is your wiggle room verse on same sex marriage?  Where is there a verse that deals with homosexuality that does not condemn it?  It was quite common in the Greco-Roman world: what Father was neutral about it?  How much of the marriage service can be applied to a homosexual "union?"
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #88 on: October 28, 2009, 10:14:25 PM »
what is your wiggle room verse on same sex marriage? 
Errr... You need to read the thread again. I just said that an ethical verse is not absolute simply for being in the NT, case in point: divorce and remarriage for reasons other than fornication.
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Re: Lutheran Church of Sweden to Offer Same-Sex Marriages
« Reply #89 on: October 28, 2009, 10:15:08 PM »
If we were proof-texting Protestants, you might have had a case.  But we are not, nor is the Church.  How do the Fathers, Tradition and the practice of the Church across the ages interpret it?
Here is a good article about it from His Grace Athenagoras, Bishop of Sinope:
http://www.orthodoxresearchinstitute.org/articles/liturgics/athenagoras_remarriage.htm

Yes indeed. He, unlike you, talks about something apropos to this thread:
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According to the Holy Scriptures marriage is built on:

the distinction, at the first creation of man, between man and woman (“Also God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them”, Gen. 1, 27)
the creation of the woman out of Adam’s rib (Gen 2, 21-24);
the blessing of God on the first created with the words: “be fruitful and increase in number” (Gen. 1 27-28).

These three elements make marriage a spiritual praxis par excellence, not only due to the simple covenant between two people, but especially due to the fact that it is an expression of God’s will. The natural covenant of marriage becomes as it were also a divine covenant, hence also its fully mystical character which the church emphasizes. The principal and therefore the most essential element of marriage is the joining of each person with one single person of the opposite sex. This element of one single person in marriage is maintained even after the fall of the first created creatures in the Old Testament, although this may not always have been adhered to in practise.[3] This element of marriage assumes a resemblance to the relationship between God and the chosen people. This element of one single person in marriage is confirmed by Christ’s teaching on marriage

And as to your digression from the subject:
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And yet the Orthodox Church can however permit divorce and remarriage on the grounds of interpretation of what the Lord says in Matt. 19, 9: “I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.” According to Bishop Kallistos Ware divorce is an action of “economia” and “expression of compassion” of the Church toward sinful man. “Since Christ, according to the Matthaean account, allowed an exception to His general ruling about the indissolubility of marriage, the Orthodox Church also is willing to allow an exception”.

A question we can ask ourselves is whether Christ considered marriage as being indissoluble? We need to be very clear in this as when Christ teaches that marriage may not be dissolved that does not mean that He is stating that it cannot occur. The completeness of the marriage relationship can be tainted by erroneous behaviour. In other words, it is the offence that breaks the bond. The divorce is ultimately a result of this break. This is also the teaching of the Eastern Church fathers. A quotation from the testimony of Cyril of Alexandria will be sufficient to make our point here: “It is not the letters of divorce that dissolve the marriage in relation God but the errant behaviour.

There is in other words a close relationship in every dimension between divorce and the possibility of remarriage. It is important here to explain a fundamental element of the Orthodox Church’s doctrine, namely that the dissolving of a marriage relationship does not ipso facto grant the right to enter into another marriage. As we look back to the time of the primitive Church, the Church of the first centuries, then we will have to agree that the Church did not have any juridical authority with regard to marriage, and did not therefore, make any statement concerning their validity. The Holy Basil the Great, for example, referred not to a rule but to usage, as far as this problem was concerned.[25] Speaking concerning the man who had been cheated by his wife, he declares that the man is “pardonable” (to be excused) should he remarry. It is good to remember that the Orthodox Church has in general always had a sense of reluctance regarding second marriages. It would subsequently be completely wrong to assert that orthodox Christians may marry two or three times!

Yet you assert this its seems, over and over, in order to avoid the direct answer on the topic of this thread, i.e. are homosexual "marriages a grace, a concession, or an abomination.


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It not only mentions the Early Fathers understanding of the indissolubility of marriage, but also discusses things such as the pastoral approach to young people who co-habitate. I especially like His Grace's statement: "What is certain is that one should not be moralising or too severe in these situations with regard to the youth, otherwise one will certainly not be heard."
So, should they be given communion?

Whereas his grace seems to talk of this a strategy to bring the youth in, you seem to speak of it as a concession to leave them as they are.

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