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My cousin was murdered Monday
« on: May 20, 2009, 09:34:47 AM »
By her ex-boyfriend, who then committed suicide. She leaves three children under the age of four, who will probably be living with my aunt.

The story here: http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/news/stories.nsf/laworder/story/9BBD79CB6A9315E4862575BB000417CE?OpenDocument
« Last Edit: May 20, 2009, 11:31:33 AM by ytterbiumanalyst »
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #1 on: May 20, 2009, 09:43:04 AM »
Lord have mercy on your cousin, on her killer, and on the children!  And may He strengthen those who are charged with providing stability and guidance and love for the children.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #2 on: May 20, 2009, 09:43:59 AM »
Lord, have mercy!  Memory eternal!
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #3 on: May 20, 2009, 09:44:45 AM »
Lord, have mercy!


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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #4 on: May 20, 2009, 09:47:32 AM »
Lord have mercy on all involved, and please know that we are here to help you!
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #5 on: May 20, 2009, 09:50:44 AM »
Lord, have mercy.

My sincere condolences and may the Lord strengthen those who will raise the young children in light of this tragedy.

Amen!

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #6 on: May 20, 2009, 09:58:29 AM »
Lord Have Mercy!

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #7 on: May 20, 2009, 09:59:09 AM »
By her ex-boyfriend, who then committed suicide. She leaves two children under the age of four, who will probably be living with my aunt.

Lord have mercy!  Memory eternal!
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #8 on: May 20, 2009, 10:02:36 AM »
Lord have mercy! Memory Eternal!
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #9 on: May 20, 2009, 10:06:59 AM »
Memory Eternal! Lord, have mercy!
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #10 on: May 20, 2009, 10:13:18 AM »
Lord, have mercy. Memory eternal.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #11 on: May 20, 2009, 10:17:57 AM »

Memory eternal!  May the Lord have mercy and help her children and family.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #12 on: May 20, 2009, 10:25:31 AM »
Lord, have mercy on Your handmaid, her murderer, and the children left behind!  Memory eternal.   :'(

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #13 on: May 20, 2009, 10:57:36 AM »
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #14 on: May 20, 2009, 11:30:08 AM »
My mom just informed me that the St. Louis Post-Dispatch covered the story. Here it is:

http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/news/stories.nsf/laworder/story/9BBD79CB6A9315E4862575BB000417CE?OpenDocument
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #15 on: May 20, 2009, 11:38:58 AM »
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #16 on: May 20, 2009, 12:14:46 PM »
Lord have mercy!

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #17 on: May 20, 2009, 12:20:57 PM »
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #18 on: May 20, 2009, 12:49:58 PM »
Lord, have mercy.  Memory eternal.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #19 on: May 20, 2009, 01:54:54 PM »
This is terrible.  I am so sorry for your loss.

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #20 on: May 20, 2009, 02:24:56 PM »
Lord, have mercy!

It's shocking.

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #21 on: May 20, 2009, 02:36:14 PM »
Memory eternal!  Lord, have mercy!
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #22 on: May 20, 2009, 02:58:32 PM »
May the Lord grant Ashlin and Michael eternal and peaceful rest and may the Lord comfort and strengthen the familes affected by the tragedy.

Amen!

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #23 on: May 20, 2009, 02:59:32 PM »
Memory Eternal

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #24 on: May 20, 2009, 06:30:32 PM »
May the Lord have mercy on her soul, forgive her her sins, and lead her to life everlasting. Amen
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #25 on: May 20, 2009, 06:36:46 PM »
Lord have mercy.

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #26 on: May 20, 2009, 06:45:56 PM »
Lord, have mercy.  Other words fail me.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #27 on: May 20, 2009, 06:48:12 PM »
Whats the world coming too,,,,
Blessed Rest Grant The Victims oh Lord ,,,
Have Mercy On the Victimizer....
Bless Oh Lord The surviving Family, Grant them Peace..
Lord Have Mercy!Amen.
May their Memory Be Eternal.....Amen Amen..
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #28 on: May 20, 2009, 07:08:52 PM »
Lord have mercy!

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #29 on: May 20, 2009, 07:11:14 PM »
How terrible! I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Lord, have mercy. Memory eternal.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #30 on: May 20, 2009, 10:40:53 PM »
In Paradiusm deducant te Angeli,
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Et deducant te in civitatem sanctam Ierusalem.

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And may God have mercy on those left behind. 

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #31 on: May 20, 2009, 11:19:12 PM »
Lord, have mercy.   I am so very sorry for your and your family's loss.  :'( 
May your cousin and the young men rest in Peace.

The poor children..
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #32 on: May 21, 2009, 01:09:07 AM »
Lord Have Mercy!

This is such terrible, tragic news......I am in utter shock.

Lord, please be merciful to those poor children.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #33 on: May 21, 2009, 02:02:49 AM »
Tonight my wife cried herself to sleep because tomorrow marks the 11th anniversary of the Thurston High School shootings.  She was a freshmen there when it happened.  The boy/shooter was her best friend.  She was crying tonight because he killed his parents the night before he went to school and shot everyone he could.

This was 11 years ago, and she still cries every night before the shooting… and for several days she feels unsafe in public because she is constantly afraid someone is going to violently murder her.


+Lord have mercy on all involved in this similar tragedy… this will affect them the rest of their lives.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #34 on: May 21, 2009, 03:05:48 AM »
+ Lord have mercy.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #35 on: May 21, 2009, 04:14:13 AM »
Lord Have mercy. I am sorry for your loss
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #36 on: May 21, 2009, 07:39:45 AM »
Lord have mercy.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #37 on: May 21, 2009, 11:00:04 AM »

God of mercy and grace grant you peace & comfort.

The risen Christ remember your cousin in His kingdom.

Lord have mercy!

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #38 on: May 21, 2009, 04:30:49 PM »
May the memory of the servants of God, Ashlin and Michael, be eternal, and may the Lord have mercy on those left to grieve their untimely deaths.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #39 on: May 21, 2009, 10:21:54 PM »
I am very sorry for your loss.

Lord, have mercy. Dear Lord, please grant eternal rest to Your servants Ashlin, Daniel and Michael. Please strengthen their children Taylor, Landon and Carter and enable them to overcome this terrible impact. Lord, have mercy.

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #40 on: May 24, 2009, 05:50:54 AM »
God Rest Her Soul. Lord Have Mercy and aid the children thru these difficult times.

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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #41 on: May 24, 2009, 06:23:04 PM »
Mr Y, Lord have mercy.  I'm sorry for your tragic loss.  Lord have mercy on the entire family.
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Re: My cousin was murdered Monday
« Reply #42 on: May 25, 2009, 01:53:31 AM »
May all involved, have a blessed rest.. Lord have Mercy!
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