I'm praying for you as well Thomas. Of course right now both of you are pretty busy with being new parents as well as your other duties, but I would urge you not to tarry too long from your investigation of Orthodoxy, as Satan is pleased to sow discontent in our spiritual journey whenever possible.
If I were in your position, I would tell my wife that I feel a genuine calling to explore the claims made by Orthodoxy and ask her if she would be willing to follow me in trying to discover if the Orthodox Church is true Church. To that end, I would say that we pick out a parish within driving distance, and participate in every service(as is possible) for a month. After the month is over, both of you should have a good "taste" of real Orthodoxy, how it is lived out not just chapters in a dusty book, and can make a decision to figure out if this is where God is leading you.
Of course, as I said you have many commitments and may not be able to do something like this. It may not even be a good idea, but it seems to me to be a good beginning. Regardless of what happens, you and your family are in our prayers.