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Fifi and I
« on: March 16, 2009, 12:32:05 AM »
Fifi and I ended our relationship today. It was a wonderful month we had together; we shared some rather intense and beautiful  experiences. It was her decision to end it. As usual when it comes to matters of the heart, I am devastated. At the same time I worry for her, because I feel as if I was the only solid and trustworthy support she could rely on at this stage in her life.

Please pray that God's will be done and that His Grace guide the both of us to acquiesce to that Will in peace and understanding. Pray that God guide me to deal with this break-up a whole lot better than I have previous break-ups. Heart-break has always been my weakest point. Pray that the Lord protect Fifi always and that He give her the strength and wisdom to emerge from this rough page in her life safely, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2009, 12:33:26 AM »
Lord have mercy.
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« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2009, 12:33:54 AM »
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #3 on: March 16, 2009, 12:37:13 AM »
Lord, have mercy!
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #4 on: March 16, 2009, 12:47:50 AM »
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #5 on: March 16, 2009, 01:04:10 AM »
Lord, have mercy!
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« Reply #6 on: March 16, 2009, 01:05:22 AM »
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« Reply #7 on: March 16, 2009, 01:54:38 AM »
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #8 on: March 16, 2009, 02:05:56 AM »
Lord have Mercy.  May the Lord strengthen and comfort both parties throughout this process.

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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #9 on: March 16, 2009, 03:22:32 AM »
Lord have mercy on thy servant and thy handmaiden.
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« Reply #10 on: March 16, 2009, 06:05:57 AM »
Panginoon maawa ka!
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #11 on: March 16, 2009, 01:19:19 PM »
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #12 on: March 16, 2009, 01:28:20 PM »
Lord have mercy; heal, comfort, and guide Your servants.
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #13 on: March 16, 2009, 01:47:51 PM »
Lord have mercy!
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« Reply #14 on: March 16, 2009, 03:26:12 PM »
Lord, have mercy.
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #15 on: March 16, 2009, 03:40:25 PM »
Lord, have mercy on this couple and give them your wisdom so that they can work out the best solution.

Holy Spirit, comfort these people and do not let despair visit them.
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #16 on: March 17, 2009, 12:46:20 PM »
Lord, have mercy! Dear Jesus, please help these people and comfort them. Holy Theotokos, please help.

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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #17 on: March 19, 2009, 11:19:07 PM »
Lord, have mercy!
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #18 on: March 21, 2009, 11:23:55 PM »
Thank you for your prayers. Fee and I have resolved the issue at the root of our break-up and are back together again. I would much appreciate your continued prayers that God's will remain operative within this relationship despite our respective shortcomings, and that it always be apprehended and properly responded to by the both of us.
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #19 on: March 22, 2009, 12:56:28 AM »
Thank you for your prayers. Fee and I have resolved the issue at the root of our break-up and are back together again. I would much appreciate your continued prayers that God's will remain operative within this relationship despite our respective shortcomings, and that it always be apprehended and properly responded to by the both of us.

Glory to God! May our Saviour bless you both! Lord, have mercy.

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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #20 on: March 22, 2009, 01:03:27 AM »
Your will be done in this situation Lord Jesus Christ!

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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #21 on: March 22, 2009, 02:22:11 AM »
Thank you for your prayers. Fee and I have resolved the issue at the root of our break-up and are back together again. I would much appreciate your continued prayers that God's will remain operative within this relationship despite our respective shortcomings, and that it always be apprehended and properly responded to by the both of us.

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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #22 on: March 22, 2009, 08:44:02 AM »
Lord Have Mercy

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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #23 on: March 26, 2009, 12:04:12 PM »
Lord have mercy.
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #24 on: March 27, 2009, 03:43:17 AM »
Wow, I don't know what to say. Just when I thought we had recovered, she seems prepared to end it again in less than 2 weeks. This is really confusing and hurting, especially since the situation seems to make very little sense to me. It is not that she is too emotionally immature to make up her mind about she feels about this and/or me; she has gone through alot and I understand the various pressures that are draining her from all angles, but I can't for the life of me understand why it would affect us given that i've gone out of my way to support and encourage her and have done my best to give her something to be happy about it. Why is this happening to me AGAIN?! Your continued prayers please...
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #25 on: March 27, 2009, 10:50:47 AM »
My most sincere sympathies, brother.

Lord, have mercy! Jarhad Barham! Dear Jesus, please resolve this situation.

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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #26 on: March 27, 2009, 11:20:20 AM »
Wow, I don't know what to say. Just when I thought we had recovered, she seems prepared to end it again in less than 2 weeks. This is really confusing and hurting, especially since the situation seems to make very little sense to me. It is not that she is too emotionally immature to make up her mind about she feels about this and/or me; she has gone through alot and I understand the various pressures that are draining her from all angles, but I can't for the life of me understand why it would affect us given that i've gone out of my way to support and encourage her and have done my best to give her something to be happy about it. Why is this happening to me AGAIN?! Your continued prayers please...

Lord, have mercy on Your faithful servant.
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Re: Fifi and I
« Reply #27 on: March 27, 2009, 12:50:09 PM »
I'm sorry to hear this, EkhristosAnesti. I can completely understand how discouraging this must be for you. May God have mercy on His faithful servant and help him as he searches for a faithful companion.
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