Why would you pay to have sex with a woman? Sadly at the age of 23 I'm still a virgin (pathetic), however like you I don't consider sex outside of marriage to be sinful (since, like you, I reject the concept of sin) but it seems that much of the physical joy and pleasure of intercourse (or any other form of sex) would come from making someone you love/care about have physical pleasure through the said action. I've had a number of friends who have had multiple partners who have told me that the most pleasurable experiences where the experiences they shared with someone they loved/cared for.
I don't know, just my thoughts.
Hey, you're certainly right...it's better when you don't pay for it. But some night either that's not an option or its just too much trouble to go out and get it that the trouble offsets the benefit. I mean, even if it is a friday or saturday night, you still have to go to the club, probably spend $60-80 while there, risk a(nother) dui, etc. for, what?, maybe a 25% chance of getting laid? (for those of you who fare better than 1 in 4 nights...keep it to yourselves.
). If you find the right girl you're almost better off laying down the $150-200. And while it may not be 'ideal', don't fool yourself, it's still good. Oh, and while I certainly agree that getting her off is a big part of it...if you find the right 'lady of ill repute' who half likes you (on top of your pocket book), that isn't out of the equation by any stretch of the imagination.
(why do I see this being moderated...despite answering a legitimate question...oh well...