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My fiancee and I
« on: September 19, 2008, 07:43:37 PM »
Please keep myself (Michel) and my fiancee (V [she is paranoid about names on the internet]) in your prayers please.  We have been going through some really rough times lately.   :(

Thank you all in advance.
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« Reply #1 on: September 19, 2008, 07:52:21 PM »
Praying for you, dear brother! May everything work out to the honour and glory of God! May His grace keep you both through this difficult time.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #2 on: September 19, 2008, 07:55:45 PM »
Please keep myself (Michel) and my fiancee (V [she is paranoid about names on the internet]) in your prayers please.

Considering some of the stories about potential employers looking up personal information online and using it against people, I'd have to say her paranoia is warranted.

But, in any case, I wish you the best of luck and hope you can work everything out.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #3 on: September 19, 2008, 08:03:22 PM »
Lord have mercy!

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« Reply #4 on: September 19, 2008, 09:06:51 PM »
Lord, have mercy. I hope things work out for you and your fiance.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #5 on: September 19, 2008, 09:20:13 PM »
Lord have mercy on Your servants.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #6 on: September 19, 2008, 10:16:37 PM »
In peace let us pray to the Lord.
Lord, have mercy.

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« Reply #7 on: September 19, 2008, 11:28:33 PM »
Lord have mercy on your servant and handmaiden..
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #8 on: September 19, 2008, 11:51:14 PM »
Lord have mercy on Friul and his fiancee.

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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #9 on: September 19, 2008, 11:57:22 PM »
Lord have mercy and save Your Servants.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #10 on: September 20, 2008, 04:00:31 PM »
Lord, have mercy!
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #11 on: September 20, 2008, 08:54:28 PM »
Lord have mercy!

Please keep us informed of progress and developments.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #12 on: September 20, 2008, 11:14:14 PM »
Thank you all so much for your prayers!

Things have definitely gotten a lot better between us.  I ask that you do continue to keep her in your prayers.  Unfortunately, before we met, she was in a very bad relationship with someone who hurt her terribly (Emotionally, spiritually, etc).  Understandably, she is still working through many of the ways he hurt her, and sometimes, it leads to issues between the two of us.  Usually things work out well, but sometimes something just clicks and it creates an extremely upsetting and difficult situation for her.

Again, thank you all for your prayers and thinking of us during these trying times.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #13 on: September 20, 2008, 11:17:53 PM »
Glory be to God!
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« Reply #14 on: September 21, 2008, 05:49:03 PM »
Lord have mercy!
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« Reply #15 on: September 21, 2008, 07:08:13 PM »
Lord have mercy!
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« Reply #16 on: September 21, 2008, 07:09:26 PM »
Lord have mercy
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #17 on: September 21, 2008, 10:47:43 PM »
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #18 on: September 22, 2008, 09:22:29 AM »
Lord, have mercy!
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« Reply #19 on: September 22, 2008, 09:36:23 AM »
Lord have mercy on Thy servants!
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #20 on: October 06, 2008, 11:44:33 PM »
Things have gotten extremely rocky (to say the least) lately.  Please pray for our uncertain future.  We both love each other very much, but it looks like it might be best to just step back for a period of time.   :(
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #21 on: October 06, 2008, 11:45:53 PM »
Lord, have mercy on your servants during these trying times.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #22 on: October 07, 2008, 12:19:16 AM »
Lord have mercy on your servant and handmaiden.
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« Reply #23 on: October 07, 2008, 07:18:48 AM »
St. Arsenios of Cappadocia recommends the reading of Psalm 43 LXX (44KJV) in this instance.
See http://www.voskrese.info/spl/arsenios.html
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« Reply #24 on: October 07, 2008, 09:03:12 AM »
Oh Friul, I'm sorry to hear that...I had been missing you here on OC.net, and wondering if you were experiencing trials again...remember, even in the midst of difficulties, God is with us-hard though it often is to fathom at the time. He will guide and direct us, and grant us His peace-if we but let Him...

My prayers are with you both!
+ Our dear sister Martha (Rosehip) passed away on Dec 20, 2010.  May her memory be eternal! +

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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #25 on: October 07, 2008, 09:39:55 AM »
Lord, have mercy on Your faithful servant Friul and his fiancee!
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« Reply #26 on: October 07, 2008, 10:42:40 AM »
Thank you all for your prayers; they mean so much to me.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #27 on: October 07, 2008, 04:16:38 PM »
I've been there--with two different guys.  The first one, we broke up, and though it saddened me back then, I was soon glad to not be with that guy anymore.  The second one--we've been married for 11 years and, despite having a rocky relationship in the beginning, these days we rarely even argue.

Have you tried counseling?
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #28 on: October 07, 2008, 04:27:16 PM »
Lord have mercy.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #29 on: October 09, 2008, 09:13:43 PM »
Lord, have mercy. Dear Jesus, please help your servants.

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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #30 on: October 10, 2008, 12:56:13 PM »
Lord Have Mercy.

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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #31 on: October 12, 2008, 01:27:07 AM »
Lord,  have mercy on Your servant Michel and on Your handmaid, Michel's fiancee.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #32 on: October 26, 2008, 06:13:10 PM »
Again, thank you all for your prayers!  Please continue to keep us in them.   :)
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #33 on: October 26, 2008, 06:14:17 PM »
Glory be to God who provides comfort and security during these trying times.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #34 on: October 31, 2008, 04:09:46 PM »
Well, we have decided to step away for some time.  How long?  Not really sure.  It might be short, might be very long.   :(

I would like to thank you all for your prayers and thoughts.  I do ask though, if you can, to continue to keep us in your prayers, to pray for a reconciliation between us, and that our feelings and love grow ever stronger for each other.  Also, just for guidance, clear minds, and assistance during these confusing, difficult times.

Thank you all again.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #35 on: October 31, 2008, 04:17:12 PM »
Lord have mercy on your servant and handmaiden.  Guide and comfort them through this difficult time.  Amen.

Everyone's experience is different and unique with differing dynamics and such, but I know it's not easy to go through.  Pray, rely and trust in the Lord, brother.
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« Reply #36 on: October 31, 2008, 04:45:14 PM »
Everyone's experience is different and unique with differing dynamics and such, but I know it's not easy to go through.  Pray, rely and trust in the Lord, brother.

Thanks for your prayers!  The thought of losing such a person from my life has been so difficult; God willing, things will, with time, sort themselves out and we will return after having grown and with renewed strength.

It definitely isn't easy to go through; I pray the Lord will grant you and your girlfriend the guidance you need in your difficult time too.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #37 on: November 01, 2008, 12:13:45 AM »
Dear Lord, please help and provide the outcome, which would be the best for Your servants. Lord, have mercy.

Best wishes, my friend...

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« Reply #38 on: November 01, 2008, 12:44:22 AM »
Thank you so much, Starlight!

Lord, have mercy.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #39 on: November 01, 2008, 09:49:15 AM »
You are often in my thoughts, Friul, and I pray that all things will work together for the best, according to God's holy will. Wishing you the peace of God which passeth all understanding!

+ Our dear sister Martha (Rosehip) passed away on Dec 20, 2010.  May her memory be eternal! +

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« Reply #40 on: November 01, 2008, 11:52:43 AM »
Thank you so much, Rosehip!

Your prayers are much appreciated and needed at this time.
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #41 on: November 01, 2008, 12:38:24 PM »
Lord our God, comfort and guide Your Servant and Your Handmaiden!
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« Reply #42 on: November 01, 2008, 02:09:16 PM »
Thank you so much, Father!
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #43 on: January 08, 2009, 03:39:36 PM »
Christ is born!

I just wanted to thank you all for your prayers again.  Things have certainly not been easy and it has taken its toll on me.  We do still talk and a strong bond and love is palpable, but the future remains uncertain.  So many others are more deserving of your prayers than I, but I still humbly ask for any you can offer.

Thank you all again!
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Re: My fiancee and I
« Reply #44 on: January 11, 2009, 12:57:21 AM »
Lord, have mercy!
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