Is confessing your wrongdoing to the victim of your wrongdoing a part of what is considered a "good confession"? Thanks!
Yes. It's best to go to your priest first for confession. If your victim doesn't forgive you. It's their problem. Since they choose to sin by not forgiving you. In no way feel that God has not forgiven you. He has. If your victim forgives you as well, than he must be Orthodox in his belief. It's easy for your victim to become the Prodigal sons brother. It's best you pray for him rather than yourself. People love to use guilt as a weapon.