Dear Lady Holiday,
I fully appreciate your comments because it is something I struggle with at church services. I have often caught myself thinking "How on earth can they think to come to church dressed like that?". But then I have to stop and try and see things from a spiritual perspective. All of us are at different levels regarding our faith and understanding and it is wrong for us to judge those who may be yet spiritual babes as it were (not that I could consider myself a spiritual adult). Instead we should fill our mind with good thoughts, praising God that this man or this woman is even standing here in church, taking part in this most awesome of mysteries. And we must pray for them that they would become enlightened and choose to dress more modestly of their own accord for the sake of we who are weak and prone to judge, remembering always that we too fall far short and can never consider ourselves better than they. With the little knowledge and understanding that they have, in God's eyes they may far outstrip us in holiness and sanctity.
I am mostly talking to myself here as I don't know you and cannot see into your heart, so please don't think these words are aimed at you.
I was just thinking that on the last day, God might say to me, "I sent my child to church, but you by your harsh attitude drove her out and she was lost.". I know that I am going to be held accountable for every thought, word and deed and this fills me with fear. Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on me a sinner.