It's true for me. I catch myself starting to do that alot. I have to constantly remind myself that I am not the fasting police, the crossing yourself police, etc, and having to ask God's forgiveness for that. However, I have not read the Rudder, nor do I usually complain about the canons not being applied like I think they should (that's the priests' and bishops' job--not mine) or anything like that. Personally, I don't want to be responsible for that kind of thing. The bishops and priests needs our prayers, because the more power you have, the more accountable you are to God for how you use that power. There are incredible temptations that come with the power and the responsibility. The more power and responsibility a person has, the more Satan tempts them.