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When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
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Archived Issue - Spring 2000
 
When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
By James Davison Hunter

 
When it comes to the moral life of children, the vocabulary of the psychologist frames virtually all public discussion. For decades now, contributions from philosophers and theologians have been muted or nonexistent. Anthropologists and sociologists are likewise absent from the discussion. Historians have been busy documenting the major developments in this realm of social life, but their influence has been limited mainly to their guild. Rather, it is the psychologists, and in particular the developmental and educational psychologists, who have owned this field-in theory and in practice. All of the major players in the last half of the twentieth century have been psychologists. Erik Erikson, B. F. Skinner, Benjamin Spock, Havighurst, Carl Rodgers, Jean Piaget, Abraham Maslow, Rudolf Dreikurs, William Glasser, Lawrence Kohlberg, Louis Rath, Sidney Simon, Jane Loevinger, Daniel Levinson, Robert Selman, Maurice Elias - their assumptions, concepts, and paradigms have largely determined how all of us think about the moral lives of children, and, indeed, about moral life generally.
Why has psychology become so dominant - even, as I will show, infiltrating religion? The discipline itself has maintained over the years that, as the science of human motive and behavior, it comes closest to a rational understanding of that difficult and elusive phenomenon, human nature. As such, psychology is supposedly in a position to specify the conditions that permit or impede the full realization of a person's natural creativity, productivity, and well-being. Understanding the range and expression of moral sensibilities is central to this task insofar as it helps to specify what are, in fact, the constituting elements of "the good life."

There are also sociological reasons why psychology has emerged as the framework for understanding the moral life. With theology in all it forms discredited as a public language, psychology has offered a seemingly neutral way to understand and cultivate the best qualities of the human personality. It is "science" after all - and science, we are inclined to believe, is "objective." In the wake of the diffused Christian consensus dominant through the first half of the twentieth century, the psychological approaches to moral education seem so much more inclusive, less offensive, and less problematic on legal grounds. Indeed, its most vocal proponents have maintained that the framework psychology offers in understanding the moral life is, in fact, objective, and its application to education is universal.

From the beginning, the centerpiece of the psychological strategy of moral education has been the concept of "development." For some theorists, the concept of development is a fundamental axiom made explicit in carefully worded theoretical propositions. For others, it is just part of the accepted wisdom that forms a background of their thinking. While morality, in this perspective, is mainly defined in terms of a rational competence that gets expressed in increasingly sophisticated principles of moral reasoning, many psychologists would insist, too, that a person's emotions are inextricably linked to moral judgment.

Indeed, since the 1960s, much of the research has given even greater prominence to the role of emotions in the development of moral understanding. It is our empathy with the plight of another that prompts ethical demands for justice; it is our uncertainty in the face of confusing events that prompts the effort of self-understanding; it is fear in the face of danger that invites the ideal of courage; it is our natural worry about threats to our livelihood or our well-being that prompts the virtue of prudence; and it is out of the experience of exhaustion or boredom that we learn to seek temperance.1

In the translation from theory to practical pedagogy, the dominant thrust of psychology has been affective. In the field, the centerpiece of this orientation has been the panoply of emotions surrounding one's own self-understanding and well-being - captured in the concept of "self-esteem." We are told that children who feel good about themselves tend to do well in school, are less likely to take drugs, will be sexually responsible, and will be more tolerant of others. Though the "self-esteem" concept lost some currency in the 1990s, other terms have arisen to take its place - for example, "emotional intelligence," or what its theorists call the EQ or "emotional quotient." After it was popularized by Daniel Goleman's 1995 best-seller Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More than IQ, hundreds of schools instituted programs based upon the idea. The enthusiasm for EQ is as high as it ever was for self-esteem programs. Says one advocate, "We believe it needs to be comprehensive, just like science and math.GǪ Every child, every school, every year."

The psychological regime
The debates and discussion within this larger field of inquiry and pedagogy are complex, to be sure. The research that forms the core of this general strategy is serious academic scholarship that has offered important insight into the psychology of moral understanding. Yet, as these theories find their way into curricula and other forms of practical pedagogy, the theoretical diversity rapidly disappears. Indeed, the real significance of this scholarship is found less in its details than in the way it diffuses into the larger culture as a guiding wisdom for thinking about moral life.

Such a diffusion is not surprising. The study of moral development was always meant to have a broader impact. The urgency of Dewey's educational vision - and those of Piaget and Kohlberg and their successors - was based on a straightforward logic: If we know what moral development is, then we will know what moral education ought to be. We can then proceed to devise programs that stimulate moral sensibility among children. It is in this way that the assumptions, concepts, and paradigms of secular psychology have largely shaped the way we all think about the moral lives of children.

The influence of psychology on our understanding of moral life has, in turn, had an impact on American culture. To whom do school systems turn when they need counseling for their students, or lawyers when they need "an expert" in court to explain the behavior of criminals, or journalists seeking opinions for a story on juvenile delinquency? We summon the psychologist, the child psychiatrist, the psychiatric social worker. The specialized knowledge of such individuals has become the common sense and working wisdom of parents, educators, and policy makers alike.

It is in the structure of this diffusion that we see this collective endeavor as a "regime." By regime I simply mean the complex network of institutions, ideas, ideals, and interests whose collective purpose is to propagate a general strategy of moral understanding and learning. Culturally, the regime goes far beyond whatever academic ideas are currently fashionable. Clearly, particular ideas and programs are packaged and presented in ever-changing ways. But the framing ideas, the mechanisms of diffusion, the institutional structures that support them, and the disparate group of elites that derive their livelihoods from them share common assumptions and interests. These ideas, mechanisms, structures, and elites do not change quickly. It is in this way that I speak of the prevailing moral education establishment as a regime.

Dominated as it is by perspectives diffused and diluted from professional psychology, this regime is overwhelmingly therapeutic and self-referencing; in character, its defining feature is the autonomous self. This regime's strategy of moral education now pervades all of the mainstream institutions that mediate moral understanding to children - schools, youth organizations, family counseling, and, most curiously, faith communities.

The religion of self-esteem
One would think that religious faith and religious communities would constitute a protective enclave against the influence of secular psychology. The reality, of course, is more complex. It was not so long ago that Protestant faith and institutions dominated moral instruction in American society. Today, faith-based cultures are fragmented and their institutions are marginalized.2 The nation's diverse faith communities are neither part of the present moral education establishment nor a politically visible part of the neo-classical and communitarian backlash.

And yet while peripheral to the larger culture-forming institutions, they retain a prominent role in local communities and in the lives of many Americans. Of course, religious denominations and other para-ecclesiastical organizations support the local structures with curriculum material and the like. There is within these faith organizations considerable ambivalence in the mix of traditional biblical teaching and psychological assumptions, concepts, and methods. There is also considerable variation in the mixture - some emphasizing Scripture and tradition and others emphasizing the psychological. That there is a blending of the two is inevitable.

Religious conservatives - especially Evangelicals - have been among the harshest critics of secular public education in the late twentieth century. Rank and file Evangelicals have consistently protested the teaching of evolution as well as the absence of prayer and Bible reading in schools. They have also emerged among the greatest supporters of old-fashioned character education. Though its leadership has not been very visible, conservative religious faith has clearly animated much of the traditionalist backlash to the moral education establishment, inspiring virtually the entire movement of abstinence-based sex education.

Conspicuous in this mix is James Dobson. As the head of the Evangelical family ministry, Focus on the Family, he has been at the forefront of opposition to nearly every cultural change since the late 1960s. Whether battling the National Education Association, the Sexuality Information and Educational Council of the United States, Planned Parenthood, or the liberal wing of the Democratic party, his opposition to progressive organizations and causes has been consistent, strident, energetic, and fairly effective. At the same time, as a family psychologist, he has dispensed advice to literally millions of parents and children. Dobson thus presents an instructive case of the mainstream Evangelical approach to moral education.

Dobson's 1989 book Preparing for Adolescence, perhaps his most significant effort to reach Evangelical adolescents with moral guidance, has sold over one and a half million copies and has had an extraordinary sway within the Evangelical subculture. The book is "designed to acquaint you with yourself ... to give you a better grasp of who you are and where you appear to be going." With the first chapter on self-esteem and a later one on emotions, Preparing for Adolescence depicts self-understanding and moral action as dependent upon the categories of contemporary psychology. The message is implicit but sustained throughout: Growing up requires ongoing introspection - about one's feelings of inferiority, sexual identity, problems, looks, indeed, every aspect of a teenager's emotional life.

As one would expect, the book offers a distinctively Christian commentary on these challenges. Dobson speaks of the obligation to obey God's will as revealed in Scripture. He also speaks of God's values as distinct from "man's values," of the example of Christ and his courage, of the need for prayer before making decisions and the need for reading the Bible as a source of guidance. Thus the "appetite for sex"


is something God created within you. I want to make this point very strongly. Sex is not dirty and it is not evil. Nothing that God ever created could be dirty. The desire for sex was Godv's idea - not ours. He placed this part of our nature into us; He created those chemicals (hormones) that make the opposite sex appealing to us. He did this so we would want to have a family of our own.... So sex is not a dirty thing at all; it's a wonderful, beautiful mechanism, no matter what you may have heard about it.

However I must also tell you that God intends for us to control that desire for sexual intercourse. He has stated repeatedly in the Bible that we are to save our body for the person we will eventually marry, and that it is wrong to satisfy our appetite for sex with a boy or girl before we get married.

At the same time, the very first reason Dobson gives against premarital sex is the risk of venereal disease; and against marriage at a young age, the likelihood of divorce and becoming a parent before one is emotionally prepared. Likewise, the leading reasons for resisting the pressure of peers to smoke cigarettes, drink alcohol, or take drugs are the consequences to health and emotional well-being.

In the lessons Dobson conveys to young people, the importance of a sustained introspective gaze, self-understanding, and well-being are established as the paramount moral categories. He enshrines self-esteem as the adolescent's most significant category in thinking about moral questions. Biblically based moral standards are framed within the language and concepts of popular psychology; not the other way around.

The end of sin
Dobson's approach is not uncommon within Evangelicalism. Kenneth Erickson's Helping Your Children Feel Good About Themselves: A Guide to Building Self-Esteem in the Christian Family also employs the language of popular psychology. Published in 1994, this sentimental book expresses an earnest concern for developing children. Here, too, self- esteem is made the cornerstone of a healthy childhood and even a healthy society. Quoting Dobson, Erickson bases his argument on the consequences of low self-esteem:

In a real sense, the health of an entire society depends on the ease with which the individual members gain personal acceptance. Thus whenever the keys to self-esteem are seemingly out of reach for a large percentage of the people, as in twentieth-century America, then widespread 'mental illness,' neuroticism, hatred, alcoholism, drug abuse, violence, and social disorder will certainly occur.
As an Evangelical, Erickson grounds the idea of self-esteem in the love of God. "Teaching children the almost-unbelievable truth about God's love," he writes, "is one of the major tasks of parents." Beyond this important theological caveat and occasional Bible verse, however, there is little to distinguish his advice from that of secular family therapists. On the one hand, he emphasizes the building of self-esteem and self-confidence as ends in themselves, techniques of communication and problem solving, and the "inner child" (or "the stowaway child within"); on the other hand, he criticizes perfectionism and shame- based morality. While he writes of the importance of forgiveness, the problem of sin is all but absent.

In a way that is typical within the Evangelical subculture, Erickson provides parents a range of specific and practical therapeutic techniques for improving their relationships with their children and, ultimately, for enhancing their children's self-esteem. These include meeting frequently with other parents "to identify and share the major problems experienced in communicating effectively with their children"; holding "family inventory sessions," in which parents and children identify and record favorite things to do together; scheduling "family discussion sessions where each member is asked to think of, and share, two special qualities they like in each of the others"; recalling the number of times they affirmed or criticized each member of the family; estimating "the amount of one-on-one time you spend with each child per day" and comparing it to the actual amount of time spent with the child; selecting positive traits parents would like to pass on to their children and identifying a "trait-for-this-week" they will incorporate into their parenting practices; and "los[ing] no natural opportunity to serve as a family 'hug therapist' ... resolv[ing] that when you feel lonely or hurt, you will ask for a healing hug from your spouse or your children."

Much the same theme is found in Charles Gerber's 1996 book, Christ-Centered Self- Esteem: Seeing Ourselves Through God's Eyes. Here again, the terminology and presuppositions of secular psychology provide the framework for Christian self-help. In the view of this professional counselor, not only is "correct biblical self-esteem ... a vital ingredient to being successful ... it is the main ingredient." Unlike most of the Evangelical books of this genre, Gerber stays very close to biblical texts in his treatment of self-esteem; each point is backed up with verses from the Bible. The author justifies this by arguing that the Bible is "the ultimate source of self-esteem." Gerber's purpose, then, is to "show how important it is that a person build his or her esteem from God's side of the cross at Calvary and not their side of the cross." The key to biblically based self-esteem, he argues, is "Christ's esteem for us." By contrast, "low self-esteem is a doctrine of the devil; a cleverly disguised and disgusting lie taught by the devil for the purpose of killing, stealing and destroying mankind."

Typical of the formulae found in Evangelicalism, Gerber offers a "prescription to improve your self-esteem" that includes the recommendation that each person "spend time with God, reading the Bible," "remember your successes," "state positives about yourself," "do a weekly inventory of positive traits you see in yourself," "smile and maintain good eye contact," "become your best friend," and "stop wanting to be someone you are never going to be, and probably should not be."

Then there is Nell Mohney's Don't Put a Period Where God Put a Comma: Self-Esteem for Christians, a sweet book filled with inspiring stories whose purpose is to instruct Christians in the "abundant life" as portrayed in the gospel of John. For Mohney, the greatest obstacle to abundant life is negative self-image. "Many Christians have low self- esteem because they haven't yet accepted God's grace. Some even believe that because we are sinful and unworthy of God's grace, we should have low self-esteem." The antidote, of course, is a positive self-image. "We no longer have to live with feelings of loneliness, rejection, and unworthiness," Mohney writes. "Instead, as we receive God's love, we are able to perceive ourselves as 'new creations' - persons full of potential and worthy of respect. When we learn to love ourselves, we can be open to others, see them as persons of worth, and be instruments through whom God's love is made visible." She, too, punctuates her lessons with specific techniques "for developing high self-esteem," "reducing harmful stress," "developing better attitudes," "overcoming negative emotions," "becoming more optimistic," and "building self-confidence." Mastery over the self in this way is important because a positive self-image is central to the "Christian value system."

In these and other books there is a curious blending of cultural ideals and conceptual categories. This is not an unconscious parroting of contemporary moral psychology. Evangelicals seek, rather, to co-opt psychology for their own purposes, making therapeutic concepts subordinate to biblical wisdom. The premise is that psychology provides tools that are, by themselves, theologically and morally neutral but useful all the same when linked to the truths of Christian faith. Yet insofar as popular psychology provides the framing categories for this literature of popular guidance and admonition, it is the Christian worldview that undergoes a peculiar reworking. Despite an easy and contemporary coherence in all of these books, the cultural incongruities these advice books represent are, from a historical point of view, breathtaking.

The mainline churches
In part, because the claim to orthodoxy is not so aggressively adhered to, such incongruities are less obvious among mainline Protestants. But the ambivalent relationship of mainline Protestant communities to the therapeutic ethos is unmistakable.

The effort to link lay theological education and developmental psychology was already well established in the mainline Protestant churches by the mid 1960s. In a document produced by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches in 1966, for example, leaders from 16 Protestant bodies outlined a strategy by which each member denomination could construct its own curriculum of religious education. Beyond better "use of the Bible in curriculum," they sought to better understand "the relationship of theological foundation and psychological insights in Christian nurture." Toward this end, their strategy was meant to integrate "learning theory" and "developments in contemporary education" in a Christian context. As a matter of practical theology, they explained that "the person's perception of his whole field of relationships, especially the way others relate to him and accept or reject him, greatly influences his capacity for self- acceptance. The self-acceptance, in turn becomes a key factor in his capacity to be outgoing in his relationships with others and with God, his Creator." Over the ensuing decades, the various mainline Protestant denominations have negotiated these insights in similar ways.

The United Church of Christ, for example, offers a pamphlet especially for youth in its "Looking Up" series. Entitled "Feeling Good About Yourself: Helping Young People Build Self-Esteem," the 1983 booklet argues that "self-esteem, self-worth, self-acceptance, self-image, or just feeling good about yourself" is the beginning of the moral life and remains forever central to it.

Loving myself is at the heart of living, loving, and growing. Unless I love myself, it is harder for me to love others and to be loved by them. Life's problems are easier to figure out and face up to if I love myself. Growing into healthy maturity and being successful are helped by how much I value myself.

The message to young people is that the foundation of goodness, and especially altruism, is love of self: "We cannot give love if we don't have the love to give. And the love we have to give has its roots in our love of Self." The booklet even goes on to counsel its readers that to love oneself "is holy." Having made this clear, it then warns young people about the excesses of narcissism - where people are so fixed upon themselves that they give little thought or concern for anyone else. This is love of Self "gone wrong." "Persons who are selfish are so insecure that they need all the attention they can get, not only from others but also from themselves." The problem with these individuals is that they were improperly cared for when they were young. The answer for them, as for all young people, is to learn a proper form of self-love. It is to this end that readers are invited on a journey of self- discovery, a journey that never ends for the simple reason that the "self is always becoming, always growing, whether we're aware of it or not."

The importance of self-understanding and self-regard to both a healthy and moral life appears in the United Methodist literature as well. Of the many materials the denomination provides, one of the most interesting is Devo'zine, the devotional magazine designed to help Methodist teenagers to "develop a lifetime pattern of spending time with God and reflecting on what God is doing in your life." The message is familiar:

Low self-esteem can keep us from achieving our goals, forming solid friendships, and seeing the good in others. It can even hinder our relationship with God. On the other hand, when we have healthy self-esteem, we realize that we are not perfect and are comfortable with that; are able to laugh at our mistakes rather than punish ourselves; can step out, share who we are, and try new things; view God as the loving, compassionate, and generous Creator of good things.
In helping them sort out their values, Devo'zine encourages readers to apply "critical thinking skills" to what they see on television: "Are the characters honest or dishonest? What are the consequences of their honesty? dishonesty? Are the characters especially selfish? Do they routinely show disrespect for one another? What are the results?" But embedded within this utilitarian logic is an appeal to transcendence: "What would Jesus think about the program? How would you feel if Jesus were watching it with you?" Moral choices are also framed within a psychology of emotional need. For example, "destructive choices meet a need of some kind. They do so in the wrong way, but they still meet a need. Bad choices may temporarily make us feel good about ourselves." Yet "to deal with sin, just saying no isn't enough. We need to fill our lives with Jesus, who is better and stronger than sin."

Sex and drugs
Because the reformed tradition in theology is known for its tendencies toward rational elucidation, it is not altogether surprising that the literature mainline Presbyterians offer their youth is far reaching. Here, too, whether on the moral life generally or on sexuality and drug use, the material reflects much the same pattern of ambivalence. The general orientation rejects "handing out absolutes," for these "can sometimes be a disservice to youth." Rather, one "must teach youth how to think, how to make faithful decisions, and how to live with the consequences of their choices." The stories and metaphors of biblical literature are used copiously throughout as a tool of moral instruction.

This church's pedagogy on sexuality, most fully developed in God's Gift of Sexuality, is unusual for its thoroughness and the fact that theology frames the discussion in its entirety - for all age groups. It offers, right up front, seven biblical and theological principles to guide an understanding of sexuality: "God created us and gave us the gift of our sexuality; God created us for life in community; our church is a community of love; our church is a community of responsibility; our church is a varied community; our church is a community of forgiveness; and God gives us responsibility for our own decisions." The theology is squarely in the liberal tradition and therefore inclines the denomination toward progressive views of abortion, homosexuality, and premarital sex. It also maintains a critical awareness of sexism, homophobia, and racism.

At the same time, the curriculum's authors are biased toward restraint - for example, "young people who are not married should not engage in sexual intercourse." In this framework, "young people ... learn a method of responsible decision making that can become a model for their lives." The model includes the typical techniques of hypothetical moral dilemmas, self-esteem exercises, and value-clarification activities. Here, too, the moral reasoning passed on to the young speaks of the importance to one's moral autonomy of feeling good about oneself. Yet consistent with its theological emphasis, the document states emphatically that one's sense of worth is enhanced by recognizing that God created us as one of his good creations. Indeed, overshadowing all is the view that "in our decision making, we are instructed by God's Word to us."

The Presbyterian drug-prevention curriculum, Together: Growing Up Drug Free , is thorough as well but more like other mainline Protestant and Evangelical literature in its emphasis on psychological assumptions.3 Thus, for example, while the manual openly recognizes that affective education focusing on self-esteem would be limited in its effectiveness, one of the fundamental factors in its alternative model (beyond teaching the consequences of drug use and interpersonal skills to resist peer pressure) is the "development of self-concept," which "includes helping children to discover and believe in their own competence, responsibility, and personal worth."

Therapeutic assumptions concerned with basic biological, psychological, social, and spiritual needs frame the argument, but the starting point is emotional well-being through self- understanding. Repeated to all age groups, in age-appropriate language, are four lessons on the nature of feelings: "feelings are real," "as real as things we can see or touch"; "feelings are not right or wrong," they "merely are"; "doing good feels good"; and "feelings change." The objective in these lessons is to change feelings through actions. If you are upset but respond in a way that is good, "your upset feeling will change into a good feeling," but "if you feel upset and do something you know is wrong, your resulting feeling may be different, but it will still be an upset feeling." Emotional self-understanding is not only the starting point but is also one of the threads that ties all lessons together, whether it is in dealing with peer pressure, the consequences of drug use itself, or the development of refusal skills. Stories from the Bible provide a point of reference, as do affirmations of God's love and strength, but the moral imagination is framed more by the categories of psychology than either Scripture or theology.

Judaism and Catholicism
The story becomes much more complex when considering the Catholic and Jewish approach to moral education. Without elaborating too much, it is worth noting that within these traditions, the moral education curricula have kept remarkably free of the influence of secular therapeutic strategies - or at least the influence is not so obvious. A number of factors may explain this. For one, both Catholicism and Judaism have historically sought to survive as minority faiths in a Protestant-dominated culture. These faiths also possess an identity rooted in ritual and tradition as well as a more deeply embedded historical self- understanding than Protestantism. But in practice, they too are not untouched by psychology.

The story is also made more complex within the lives of particular churches, parishes, and synagogues. Here such distinctions tend to flatten out to the kind of utilitarian formulae advocated through the dominant regime. For example, when asked how she would deal with a student who stole something from a classmate, the principal of a Catholic school in San Antonio said, "First, I'd ask them why they did it. I'd ask them about how it makes them feel, and how would they like it if somebody did that to them?" But if they felt okay about it? "I'd say, 'You know, you can't get away with it all of your life. It just doesn't work that way.'" Would she ever use the language of the Catholic faith to deal with these matters? After all, the setting was a Catholic school sponsored by the Catholic Church in the very Catholic city of San Antonio, Texas. To this, she answered quite matter of factly,

Oh, no, that kind of language would probably not relate to them anyway. When I was growing up I personally might of responded to someone if they said, "hey, this is a sin." Today, though, I don't think that young people would respond to that. The most you could say to them is that, "this is not allowed."
A youth minister in a large Presbyterian church in Chicago made much the same admission. When asked - "Do you ever invoke the name or the example of Christ" with your work with kids on moral issues? - he said he did not. "Sometimes I think I should, but I find it artificial. For these kids, the symbols [of the faith] don't mean anything."

And for a rabbi in charge of religious education in one of New York City's largest Reform synagogues, are the young people he works with ever exposed to theological concepts like "sin" to help make sense of various ethical issues?

Sin isn't one of our issues. My guess is that in twelve years of religious school our kids will never hear the word. It's not a Jewish concern. It doesn't exist by us, for better or for worse.
As to the moral ideal of well-being, it is ubiquitous in youth ministry. The concept of self- esteem, in particular, is never far from the articulated objectives of such work, though it is not embraced without reservation. "Yes," said the Presbyterian youth minister,

self-esteem is touted in youth ministry everywhere. It has become our standard. Yet what does self-esteem have to do with Christianity? Jonathan Edwards didn't have a damn thing to do with it. Isn't the denial of self at the heart of Christian faith? To me it can kind of degenerate into solipsism, self worship, so to me it's somewhat superficial."
Nevertheless, he continues to see self-esteem as a worthy aim.

The principal of the Catholic school in San Antonio also embraced the ideal of self-esteem but, in the same breath, interpreted it in the language of her faith. "Self-esteem is very much a basic teaching of the Catholic Church: you are created good and the Holy Spirit has gifted you and empowered you." The director of education at the synagogue in Manhattan affirmed it as well but framed it in communal terms. "I do want them to understand what a healthy Jewish identity is," he said, "so we have some very deliberate units that are called 'Proud and Jewish' which unquestionably builds up their self-esteem as young Jewish people."

The ambivalence of faith communities toward moral education could not be more clear. Many faith communities are determined to ground moral education in biblical literature and theological tradition; at the same time, they embrace the language and assumptions of contemporary psychology. Because Evangelicals are among the most self-conscious about the preservation of their orthodoxy, it is a bit ironic that they are among the least self- conscious about their embrace of therapeutic categories and ideals. Whatever else may be lost in this bargain, such syncretism does provide a contemporary diction that is both relevant to the young and easy for them to grasp. However, the fact that Evangelical Protestantism, despite its public posturing to the contrary, is comfortable with a therapeutic understanding of morality and moral development suggests that its resistance to the dominant culture may, in fact, be little resistance at all.

Triumph of the therapeutic
The problem is not subjectivity, for moral life has always required a deep and rich subjective engagement. But subjectivity in our day has given way to subjectivism, where the experiences, interests, and sentiments of the autonomous individual are enshrined as the standards defining the height, length, and breadth of moral hope and possibility. That this cultural transformation has taken place is rarely disputed anymore. What is particularly noteworthy is that the moral education establishments have, in various and often unintended ways, assisted and even celebrated this transformation in its work with children. The old Protestant establishment offers no real protest.

And so whether or not the pedagogies provide specific training in a range of desired behaviors, the implicit lessons of contemporary moral education speak powerfully to the moral imagination. Here, the self - its appetites, preferences, and interests - is at center stage, without serious rival or competition. Thus, while nearly all moral educators disparage the subjectivism and individualism of our time, none of the alternatives presented are able to transcend or escape them.

The purpose of moral education is to change people for the better and, in so doing, to improve the quality of life in society. The difficulty is that moral education, as it is presently configured and institutionalized, is utterly captive to the society in which it exists. It embodies too well the psychological assumptions that have brought the social order to its present place and that continue to maintain it. It is, in so many respects, a reflection of the moral order it seeks to transcend and then transform. In this regard, moral education, even in its diversity and its apparent oppositions, is more a story about the legitimation of American culture than it is about its transformation. This continues patterns well-established in history. In every context, in every generation in America, the evolving substance of moral education has reflected the central assumptions and ideals of the prevailing Zeitgeist. Our present moment is no different.

1 More recent research has focused upon the cognitive dimensions of emotion, particularly in the neurophysiological aspects of emotions (e.g., the biochemical reactions in the brain when one feels, say, anger or elation) and in the peculiar behavioral expressions of emotions (such as knitting one's brow when one is worried or breaking into a smile when one is happy). Indeed, they view emotions as a kind of cognitive process, a "hot cognition" as some call it. See Jerome Kagan's essay, "The Idea of Emotion in Human Development," in Emotions, Cognitions and Behavior, edited by Carroll E. Izard, Jerome Kagan, and Robert B. Zajonc (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1984).

2 In the case of Protestantism, Sunday-school enrollments in the United States from 1970 to 1986 dropped about a third (40.5 million to 26.6 million), a level that remained fairly stable through the 1990s. Consistent with this, Gallup polls have shown that the number of adults reporting no Sunday-school training during their childhood rose from 10 percent in 1970 to 27 percent in 1986. The number of willing, reliable, and trained volunteers has always been a challenge but, in this demographic context, it is a challenge that has only increased. Add to this a general drop off in denominational support for religious education and the cumulative evidence suggests that the institution is facing problems from which it may not recover.

3 For younger adolescents, the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) offers the drug-education curriculum, "Just Say Yes!" Here, too, biblical guidance is woven together with the moral concerns of emotional and physical well-being. Straight off, young people are presented with 31 "price tags" of drug abuse, only one of which bears on the spiritual consequences. The rest emphasize cancer and other serious physical illnesses along with suicidal depression, embarrassment, and other emotional and psychological problems. Session two is on self-esteem. Session three focuses upon "personal power" to make tough autonomous decisions. The final session addresses "freedom" - mainly from bad habits but also freedom to choose positive goals.

James Davison Hunter is director of the Institute for Advanced Studies in Culture at the University of Virginia and author of Culture Wars.  
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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #1 on: July 15, 2003, 09:11:14 PM »
Thanks for posting this, Dustin. I have noticed the superiority of psychology in religion in my experiences with with the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.). It seems like the Gospel is only wanted when it supports the consensus of the Psychological community. But psychology will not heal man's soul and body from his afflictions--only Christ through His Church.

The funny thing is that these ministers think that they are doing a great service by giving religion to youth by not turning them off with certain words like "sin" and "wrong." But that is really not Christianity at all.

Don't get me wrong, the youth speak a different language. They have different needs, but depriving them of Christianity is not the answer to their woes.

IMO, World Youth Day in Toronto was a wonderful thing in many ways because it appealed to the youth and taught them the Gospel (specifically the Beatitudes). There are also countless examples of young saints that the youth can be taught about, especially those who didn't go along with the crowd (I'm thinking of St. Lucy, but I'm not sure how old she was).

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #2 on: July 15, 2003, 11:57:40 PM »
World Youth Day (in my humble opinion) was nothing more than a Catholic "Woodstock"

Irreverence and syncreatism were the prime qualities displayed by both the clergy and attendees.

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #3 on: July 16, 2003, 12:45:05 AM »
Bobby how many times have you seen the Pirates of the Caribbean ?? Go easy on that Capt. Morgan.

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #4 on: July 16, 2003, 08:56:33 AM »
Thanks for posting this, Dustin. I have noticed the superiority of psychology in religion in my experiences with with the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.). It seems like the Gospel is only wanted when it supports the consensus of the Psychological community. But psychology will not heal man's soul and body from his afflictions--only Christ through His Church.

The funny thing is that these ministers think that they are doing a great service by giving religion to youth by not turning them off with certain words like "sin" and "wrong." But that is really not Christianity at all.

Don't get me wrong, the youth speak a different language. They have different needs, but depriving them of Christianity is not the answer to their woes.

IMO, World Youth Day in Toronto was a wonderful thing in many ways because it appealed to the youth and taught them the Gospel (specifically the Beatitudes). There are also countless examples of young saints that the youth can be taught about, especially those who didn't go along with the crowd (I'm thinking of St. Lucy, but I'm not sure how old she was).

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>When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #5 on: July 16, 2003, 11:23:15 AM »
Bobby, you are mistaken since you weren't even there. How was it syncretist? There was more to it than was on TV.

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #6 on: July 16, 2003, 12:57:49 PM »
I'll say a few things that are probably obvious to most here:

Psyche means soul... Therefore, psychotherapy means "healing of soul"...  I believe we cannot achieve such healing outside the ascetic tradition of the Orthodox Church.

Even in the above article...  Psychology was "westernized" to have more to do with morality and reason than the soul.  We all need true psychotherapy, but I doubt any of us really need the techniques described in the article.  They would probably only be a detriment to us.

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #7 on: July 16, 2003, 04:23:45 PM »
I'll say a few things that are probably obvious to most here:

Psyche means soul... Therefore, psychotherapy means "healing of soul"...  I believe we cannot achieve such healing outside the ascetic tradition of the Orthodox Church.

Even in the above article...  Psychology was "westernized" to have more to do with morality and reason than the soul.  We all need true psychotherapy, but I doubt any of us really need the techniques described in the article.  They would probably only be a detriment to us.

Probably???????????

Have you ever been in a position to need them?

Identifying the soul with the mind does not work. The mind is all too obviously seated within the brain and subject to the physics of brain chemistry and the like. If the brain is physically damaged, then what of the soul (since the mind is surely damaged)?

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #8 on: July 16, 2003, 06:17:25 PM »
You're thinking in too earthy a way, Keble. The nous is also associated (literally, not just symbolically) with the heart. That doesn't mean that someone has a damaged nous because they were born with a hole in their heart, or because they have had heart attacks.

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #9 on: July 17, 2003, 08:33:51 AM »
You're thinking in too earthy a way, Keble. The nous is also associated (literally, not just symbolically) with the heart. That doesn't mean that someone has a damaged nous because they were born with a hole in their heart, or because they have had heart attacks.

I don't see how the "literally" of the first sentence is compatible with the denials of the second. I'm sorry I have to say this, but having church fathers repeat ancient pre-scientific statements doesn't make those statements true.

Don't get me wrong. It's rather plain how psychology, being therapeutic, has been used as a sort of crypto-predestination in attempts to escape from pesonal responsibility. A therapist testifying for the defense in a courtroom is being employed for that very purpose. At the same time, also being therapeutic, it seems obvious that a better scientific understanding of the mind should be of benefit to religion.

Take, for instance, the work of Stanton Samenow. I have in my lap at this moment a copy of Before It's Too Late, a popularized version of his work on juvenile delinquency intended for the use of parents. There is nothing in this book that is unOrthodox, though it never once mentions religion. It is simply a study of the mental characteristics of those who fall into criminality, with the intent of helping parents to identify them and act against them. In that wise it does no more than provide a parent with more tools with which to deal with such a situation, even a parent who is well-grounded in their faith.

Also, it seems to me that there something bizarre about some of what the original passage is saying about law. It seems to be saying that the "real" reason, for example, for the commandment against adultery is the commandment itself. But this, it seems to me, is in contradiction to what Jesus teaches. If all the law hangs on the two great commandments, then the law against adultery is derivative. This is entirely too big a topic to tackle here, especially in the wrong subforum. But it does seem to me that the objective consenquences of sinning are indeed reasons not to sin-- not just in their own right, but because not doing harm is what we are commanded to do.
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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #10 on: July 17, 2003, 09:40:50 AM »
Keble<<But it does seem to me that the objective consenquences of sinning are indeed reasons not to sin-- not just in their own right, but because not doing harm is what we are commanded to do.>>

Right, brother Keble. Religion can't just be subjective and arbitrary.

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #11 on: July 17, 2003, 09:53:02 AM »
Keble,

Met. Hierotheos explains the relation of the nous to the heart in his book Orthodox Psychotherapy linked above.  I bought the book and read it in its entirety and found it to be the book that finally got me to see the uniqueness of Orthodox spirituality.

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #12 on: July 17, 2003, 05:11:52 PM »
I'm having quite a bit of trouble here because of two things.

First, I'm pretty sure the author of the original passage is not Orthodox (I'm betting Anglican). If this be so, then from what you're saying, it cannot be made to make sense in an Orthodox context anyway.

Second, obviously I haven't read Orthodox Psychotherapy. However, I am compelled to know something of the field from a physiological perspective anyway. And I happen to know enough to be dangerous about the religious side.

For example, what does the book say about kidneys and bowels? The O.T. assigns mental functions to these organs, yet it is physiologically certain that they do not do so through any physical activity. Bile has nothing to do with temprament; it has to do with digestion.

Conversely, it is equally certain that the physiology of the brain does have a critical if not all-important role. Various disfunctions and injuries to the brain demonstrate this. Conversely, injuries to the heart do not (and I don't know how else to interpret "literally").

This thread seems to be stumbling badly. I'm not utterly clear on why, but I'm not understanding why people are saying what they are saying, and I get the sense that people are assuming that I'm defending psychology more strongly than I would ever care to.

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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #13 on: July 17, 2003, 05:51:24 PM »
It seems to me that the miscommunication arises from two opposed mindsets (that is to say, mindsets of which the holders are conscious).

Keble appears to me to be approaching the issue from the standpoint of what we know of the functionings of the human body, or, to overgeneralize just a bit, from a primarily physiological standpoint.  Thus his comments on "literal" and ancient physiology compared to how we understand those matters today.

Other responses seem to be coming more from a patristic mindset that understands human physiology from, and I'm sorry to use such a loaded term, a mystical perspective.  That is to say, while the heart organ as an organ has not been discovered by science to have any intellectual capability, the Fathers of the Church speak of the mind descending into the heart (as in the Jesus prayer).  And there are reports, to us fantastic, of odd physiological results arising from this sort of mystical descent (felt increases of heat stemming from the chest, among other things).

I think an either/or approach to these matters is problematic.  I doubt seriously that many in the discussion would wish to return to classical Greek physiology, and would acknowledge the appopriate place for medical science in human living.  On the other hand, it likewise seems to me quite limiting to view the human person from a mere, or even a primarily, physiological perspective.  It is here that the Fathers can help us immensely, strange as some of their teachings may be to us.

Take for example what Alexander Schmemman points out in his book Great Lent, the great lie of Satan is to get us to see human life as merely biological life.  Jesus points out this lie in his great temptations.  It is this mindset, it seems to me that the Fathers are coming from.
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Re:When Psychotherapy Replaces Religion
« Reply #14 on: July 17, 2003, 07:43:38 PM »
CDHealy<<Take for example what Alexander Schmemman points out in his book Great Lent, the great lie of Satan is to get us to see human life as merely biological life.  Jesus points out this lie in his great temptations.  It is this mindset, it seems to me that the Fathers are coming from.>>

In Christianity do we really believe things just happen because they do? Or is there something more?

Science can be limited. I was reading this evening of a study of near-death experiences in Reader's Digest. People literally die and then have out-of-body experiences. The rational skeptic says that he/she is hallucinating, but how can a braindead person hallucinate with no ("all-powerful") brain and no blood? Scientists are divided on such near-death experiences.

One scientist even proposed the idea that consciousness does not come from the brain alone, and that these near-death experiences are possible (hundreds of people report them). Even so, when you say that not only our brain has consciousness, and no other part of the body is shown to have consciousness by science, you move closer to the existence of a soul.

While our understanding of the immortality and existence of our souls ultimately comes from faith illumined by God, there are many things science cannot explain. So, it's not a good idea to take everything scientists say as truth. Yet that seems to be the mindset of a lot of people, myself included, especially since truth cannot harm us.

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