Welcome to the OC.net forum, Theodot. I hope your time here continues to be edifying.
In answer to your question, one of the first things I would recommend is that you buy a book of Orthodox readers' prayers and learn the basics of how to conduct a reader's service at home. It looks as if you're going to be doing this quite a bit already, so you might as well learn how to do it right. (Heck, as it is, I often use my reader's book to conduct services at home, and I live only twenty minutes away from my church, so having a reader's service book cannot be a bad thing for anyone.) Many on this forum recommend the Jordanville Prayer Book as one of the best in English print, at least for those who follow the Slavic traditions. If you want something that follows the Greek practice more closely, I think Arimethea, our Liturgy section moderator, might be able to help you more than I. I hope this helps.
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