I have to try and demonstrate what would be a wish for my 4yo daughter that hasn't spoken since she was 18mo old! She cannot communicate...
Well, does she seem attracted to something? A special stuffed animal, maybe a TV character? Is there some object that she seems to respond too?
Most folks go to disney, but we aren't disney folks. ...
Please don't take this the wrong way, but I thought this was for HER? With all compassion, this is not about "you folks"; It is about what your child might respond too. There is a huge amount of stimulation at Disney and similar parks.
You also have other small children. Are they "not disney folk's" either? Or is this just the conclusion that the 2 adults in the family have decided? Maybe you should ask them if they would like to go to Disney? Not many children I know would say "No" to that choice.
Pray I do the right thing, the best thing for Heather and our whole family.
I can only offer advice. My prayers are worthless.