Our toddler just had her first today--we did the standard shoes outside the door with chocolate coins, plus a few other gifts. She really got into it. We're learning carols that go with the feastday, too, but mercifully we have another year or so to really get them down.
Can't really answer the actual question, since America is the country I come from and in which I live (plus I didn't grow up celebrating the feast), so I just thought I'd share that. Pics will be up on my blog (linked below), probably this evening.